Adios...

What happened?

With the ice cream or the breakup?

The breakup dude.

She went on holiday to New Zealand and decided that she wasn't going to come back...

You'll be fine eventually but understandable you're moody for a bit. Hope the feeling passes and you start to feel more happy ones.

So the reason is unrelated to you? That's a good thing, no? I decided to stay in the UK a few years ago and unfortunately some of my friends were sad about that.

It was a real kick in the stomach because I felt like the two of us came before anything else... it was just so spontaneous, and the way she handled it (she's barely spoken to me in the last fortnight since she told me) really hurt.

I had no idea and still haven't had the chance to speak to her about it. It was all so good when she kissed me goodbye, and then... bam.

Perhaps she has good reason to stay and felt awkward telling you because she didn't want to hurt your feelings?

How did you find out?

She messaged me on the morning of Wednesday 6th (only remember the date because it was the morning of my Physics mock). Told me that she wasn't coming back. Said that 'it's better for me here' without really saying why.

Then I heard nothing for a few days, until she accidentally asked me for her own phone number, at which point she told me 'I'm not ready to talk serious'.

When she will be, I don't know. But it's clearly over.

Seems rather insensitive of her. She might have her reasons but she really ought to have handled the situation better.

Sorry man.

She messaged me on the morning of Wednesday 6th (only remember the date because it was the morning of my Physics mock). Told me that she wasn't coming back. Said that 'it's better for me here' without really saying why.

Then I heard nothing for a few days, until she accidentally asked me for her own phone number, at which point she told me 'I'm not ready to talk serious'.

When she will be, I don't know. But it's clearly over.

She went on holiday to New Zealand and decided that she wasn't going to come back...

It was a real kick in the stomach because I felt like the two of us came before anything else... it was just so spontaneous, and the way she handled it (she's barely spoken to me in the last fortnight since she told me) really hurt.

I had no idea and still haven't had the chance to speak to her about it. It was all so good when she kissed me goodbye, and then... bam.

She went on holiday to New Zealand and decided that she wasn't going to come back...

Oh sorry to hear that. But she decided to stay? Or her family? If it was her how old is she? If it was her family then I guess she didn't really have a choice but she should of at least talked to you more seems kind of insensitive.

She's 18 and it was her own choice, I'm not sure if her family even knows yet :/

Ah well, you know what they say mate - plenty of Phish in the sea

Ah well, you know what they say mate - plenty of Phish in the sea

How does one just move countries? Like is that even legal?
And my condolences, I could tell from your posts you really cared about her.

What does half baked taste like? I don't really have do desserts but you've piqued my interest now