I would say my experience overall was negative. I was actually supposed to receive a lesson on mensuration and periods in year 6 but never got it. My school spectated boys and girls and we’re going to have lessons to teach us about what would be happening to our bodies for next few years. I did something wrong in school, got detention, and wasn’t allowed to go to the lesson! They didn’t even bother to tell me anything at a different day either. So, when I got to year 7, I knew that a period was when I’d bleed but I had no idea what else to expect about it, like how painful it could be etc. I was one of the last people in my class to get my period, and I’d say that other girls were what made my experience positive. My secondary school would charge us money for pads if we started our periods during school. Good thing it was pretty much guaranteed that at least one other girl would be on her period so you could ask for a spare pad or tampon. I have also found that whenever I’ve been on my period in school and I’ve wanted to use the toilet, I would be refused by teacher and only when I told them I was on my period did they let me go. I understand that most schools don’t allow students to go to the toilet during class (for whatever reason) but I don’t feel like I should have to admit that I’m on my period to a male teacher when I don’t feel comfortable doing so. Also, I think that girls and boys alike are severely under educated when it comes to periods. Never in my years of school has polycystic ovaries, endometriosis, pre menstrual dysphoric disorder, dysmenorrhea or Amenorrhea or any of the other disorders and emotional complications that periods can cause has ever been mentioned in school. I used to have extreme nausea, would pass out in school because of heavy periods, would get cramps soooo bad that I couldn’t even walk let alone get out of bed, and yet teachers and doctors alike told me that I just needed to exercise more, drink more water and eat more fruit. Well, after 5 years of fighting, I was finally diagnosed with endometriosis and now have a repeat prescription for the pill. I feel like more needs to be done to educate both boys and girls (and doctors!) on conditions such as mine and others so that women can have healthier relationships with their bodies. I think that there needs to be a cap on how much sanitary products cost (period poverty) and that young women from certain ages should be allowed either vouchers for free products if they need them (like entitlement to free school meals works) or at least vouchers for discounts (again, to combat period poverty.) I would say my experience during school was poor, with teachers not taking my condition seriously, doctors not taking it seriously until recently, girls not understanding my condition due to a lack of education, boys saying I was on my period any time I got slightly annoyed, and getting conned out of my money by my school for starting my period unexpectedly (I did bring pads with me eventually to prepare for if I started, but still, why don’t schools offer these for free?) and yeah, it wasn’t great.
And also, more needs to be done to reframe education around the pill. It shouldn’t just be taught that it is a form of contraception l, because although it is, it is also a form of medication for most women. Most girls I’ve talked to who suffered from painful or heavy periods said they put up with it because they didn’t know at the time that the pill could be used to help them! So the pill needs to be reframed as a form of medication for some women, and also an effective contraceptive!