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    (Original post by blue.racoon59)
    To the first part - yes. I would definitely not say that my worth or anyone else's worth is equivalent to the attention I or they receive from guys.

    Is waiting until you're in your 20s really that bad? There's so much you can enjoy in life without a guy on your side. I believe that so much that I would not even be upset if I had no experience with guys in my 40s, 50s or even by the time I die. :rolleyes:
    Then you haven't had any good experiences with guys, don't try and avoids guys, that's lousy advice!
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    (Original post by Arran.Williamson)
    Then you haven't had any good experiences with guys, don't try and avoids guys, that's lousy advice!
    I didn't say to avoid guys - I said they usually get more mature and look past just your looks as they get older. I stick by what I said - you can't measure your worth by the amount of attention you get from guys. I don't see anything wrong with that advice. :rolleyes:
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    (Original post by im so academic)
    I don't want any of this crap like "beauty is in the eye of the beholder" (total nonsense) and "there are other qualities to consider, not just beauty" (YEAH right).

    Men, just give me your honest opinions when you see women. How far do you judge them on looks? Why do you hate ugly woman such as myself?

    How far do you base a woman's worth on her looks?

    I want honest answers.

    Look, no one is going to know you've posted in this thread. Just let out what you really think. I don't want to be lied to anymore.
    It is in genes of a man to judge women on looks.
    We are not shallow as women by judging them on money, job, status,ect
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    (Original post by ssxx)
    It is in genes of a man to judge women on looks.
    We are not shallow as women by judging them on money, job, status,ect
    I'm pretty sure it's more shallow to judge purely on looks

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    (Original post by shadowdweller)
    I'm pretty sure it's more shallow to judge purely on looks

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    Fool, no man wants an old ugly deformed woman. She will give birth to unhealthy offsprings.
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    (Original post by ssxx)
    Fool, no man wants an old ugly deformed woman. She will give birth to unhealthy offsprings.
    Doesn't mean you have to judge purely on looks, was my point

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    (Original post by shadowdweller)
    Doesn't mean you have to judge purely on looks, was my point

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    A womans looks can give a lot of information about her DNA!
    FACT. men have evolved to go to young, good looking women.
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    (Original post by ssxx)
    A womans looks can give a lot of information about her DNA!
    FACT. men have evolved to go to young, good looking women.
    I'm not saying they haven't, but other things are important too

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    (Original post by shadowdweller)
    I'm pretty sure it's more shallow to judge purely on looks

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    So being selective based on how much somebody earns is less shallow than going by looks? :confused:

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    (Original post by chappers-94)
    So being selective based on how much somebody earns is less shallow than going by looks? :confused:

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    Depends what falls under the etc

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    (Original post by ssxx)
    It is in genes of a man to judge women on looks.
    We are not shallow as women by judging them on money, job, status,ect
    Why is it always a men vs women tone with you?

    SOME women judge based on aesthetics like income and status. For others, those things come far down in the list.

    Edit: By your logic, you could argue that women value wealth because it's in their genes to find a partner that can provide for their future offspring. Never mind the fact that women and men have evolved to reason against their baser urges.
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    (Original post by Ashahedow)
    Why is it always a men vs women tone with you?

    SOME women judge based on aesthetics like income and status. For others, those things come far down in the list.
    This.

    Some men judge on looks, and some women judge on income. That doesn't mean all do

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    (Original post by Ashahedow)
    Why is it always a men vs women tone with you?

    SOME women judge based on aesthetics like income and status. For others, those things come far down in the list.

    Edit: By your logic, you could argue that women value wealth because it's in their genes to find a partner that can provide for their future offspring. Never mind the fact that women and men have evolved to reason against their baser urges.
    Tbh women also judge men on their looks just as much as men do with women. Perhaps its different in some cultures where women don't have as many rights (in the work place for example) but I think it's pretty even amount of shallowness in the uk
 
 
 
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