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I was called a freak today :(
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Original post by Sammylou40
Reporting you
Wow go ahead.
I assumed he was above 18 in University and I asked his age LOL.
PFFT
Original post by KingAfricaIX
Wow go ahead.
I assumed he was above 18 in University and I asked his age LOL.
PFFT
I assumed he was above 18 in University and I asked his age LOL.
PFFT
Irrelevant. What you said is gutless. I wonder if screenshots of your posts can be linked in anyway to you when they get sent to the civil service? They'd look really good with your application..........
Rob them cuz
Original post by Dom2375
Probably because you are.
You are actually worse than the person who said it - at least I can report them to staff in real life, and they will be dealt with. It must feel real hard trying to upset someone from behind a computer screen. Shame on you.
They are not your friends 
You are not a freak! They are losers who are so insecure about themselves that they talk about you negatively like that. They're just jealous of you!
If you need a friend or someone to talk to feel free to come and chat with me anytime
You are not a freak! They are losers who are so insecure about themselves that they talk about you negatively like that. They're just jealous of you!If you need a friend or someone to talk to feel free to come and chat with me anytime
Just the fact that your friends were present doesn't necessarily mean they agree with what was being said- they may well have laughed along or said nothing due to the social pressure. I have Asperger's too; stay strong. Hope everything works out for you. 
Original post by Sae.HH
Just because they called you a freak doesn't mean they hate you. You might just be weird, if you have Asperger's you probably are weird. But it's safe to say they don't like you.
Dude, Aspergers doesn't make someone weird. It just makes them different, and that can be an amazing thing.
And today, I have not been called a freak yet : (
But i live in hope ~
:3
But i live in hope ~
:3
Original post by Ngalam
In Life you must never apologize or feel sorry about two things.
1. Who you are.
2. Your views(especially those you feel strongly about)
I don't know you, but I know every individual is wonderful and has something to offer. So if your 'friends' decide to overlook all your wonderful attribute and focus on the fact that you might not be so comfortable socialising, then I think you need new friends.
Friends help build us each other in areas of weakness, not talk behind their back, especially in ideal gossip. Be the best you can be, you owe yourself that.
1. Who you are.
2. Your views(especially those you feel strongly about)
I don't know you, but I know every individual is wonderful and has something to offer. So if your 'friends' decide to overlook all your wonderful attribute and focus on the fact that you might not be so comfortable socialising, then I think you need new friends.
Friends help build us each other in areas of weakness, not talk behind their back, especially in ideal gossip. Be the best you can be, you owe yourself that.
1) I agree with
2) I don't. A person's views don't make them up. The ability to recognise when you've got something wrong, and constantly reevaluate your views in the light of new evidence, is important.
In this case that's not particularly relevant, since the OP has done nothing wrong - I'm mainly at odds with the principle.
Original post by JDi98
Today, I overheard someone speaking about me (they thought that I had long left the room, but didn't realise that I had returned, as I had forgotten something).
They stated 'he's a freak, I don't like him'. I know this was clearly about me, as the conversation I heard immediately before this was talking about me.
Worse still, the person said this to people whom I thought were my friends.
Needless to say, I have never felt so low as I do now in a long time.
I have Asperger's which makes me shy socially, but I didn't realise that people hate me. :'(
They stated 'he's a freak, I don't like him'. I know this was clearly about me, as the conversation I heard immediately before this was talking about me.
Worse still, the person said this to people whom I thought were my friends.
Needless to say, I have never felt so low as I do now in a long time.
I have Asperger's which makes me shy socially, but I didn't realise that people hate me. :'(
thats life though people will be mean just go revise your ass off and be like hey look the freak beat you in his gcses or alevels or hit gym get big get a bird and be like oh the freaks got a fit girlfriend now omg
all takes time and dedication but will be funny if you make them look dumb....
It's never nice when we hear others talk negatively about us. But sadly you have to come to peace with the fact that people exist in the world that are not nice and mature but are rather extremely ignorant. When faced with such negative situations, I always remember the following:
You have £86,400 in your bank account and someone stole £30 from you.Would you be so upset that you would throw all the remaining £86,370 away In the hope of getting back at the person who took your 30 bucks? Or spending more and more of your remaining money just to get back that £30 to make it that way it was? Or would you let it go, and move on In the understanding that you no longer control that £30? And you still control and can choose what to do with the remaining £86,370. We all have 86,400 seconds in every day. Don’t let someone’s negative 30 seconds ruin the rest of your 86,370 seconds.Those 30 seconds have gone. Your whole day (and life) is ahead of you.
They say people can only hurt you emotionally if you let them. I agree with this to most part. Just start to not give a slightest bit of toss about what bunch of ignoramuses think and say.
You have £86,400 in your bank account and someone stole £30 from you.Would you be so upset that you would throw all the remaining £86,370 away In the hope of getting back at the person who took your 30 bucks? Or spending more and more of your remaining money just to get back that £30 to make it that way it was? Or would you let it go, and move on In the understanding that you no longer control that £30? And you still control and can choose what to do with the remaining £86,370. We all have 86,400 seconds in every day. Don’t let someone’s negative 30 seconds ruin the rest of your 86,370 seconds.Those 30 seconds have gone. Your whole day (and life) is ahead of you.
They say people can only hurt you emotionally if you let them. I agree with this to most part. Just start to not give a slightest bit of toss about what bunch of ignoramuses think and say.
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You're not a freak.
Original post by JDi98
Today, I overheard someone speaking about me (they thought that I had long left the room, but didn't realise that I had returned, as I had forgotten something).
They stated 'he's a freak, I don't like him'. I know this was clearly about me, as the conversation I heard immediately before this was talking about me.
Worse still, the person said this to people whom I thought were my friends.
Needless to say, I have never felt so low as I do now in a long time.
I have Asperger's which makes me shy socially, but I didn't realise that people hate me. :'(
They stated 'he's a freak, I don't like him'. I know this was clearly about me, as the conversation I heard immediately before this was talking about me.
Worse still, the person said this to people whom I thought were my friends.
Needless to say, I have never felt so low as I do now in a long time.
I have Asperger's which makes me shy socially, but I didn't realise that people hate me. :'(
Unfortunately some people can be cruel, misinformed and misunderstanding. You are not a freak, but some people can't tolerate anyone who is different from them. Please know that you are not alone in this and that your friends probably didn't want to say anything in your defence because they were trying to keep a low profile. If they are still talking to you, then they don't think you are a freak. However, if they are not talking to you anymore then they are not your friends and you should forget about them.
Someone called me a freak in the street the other day because I decide to dress "90s goth" style as I was going to see a metal band. There's also a guy at Uni who absolutely cannot stand me for some reason, but he is a jerk so he doesn't bother me.
I was bullied at school for more than 10 years and I had to put up with some awful stuff, but I got through it. It has been a long time since I left school and I still get bits of abuse, but it's other people who are the problem not me. I tried to blend in, to be normal for a while, but I realised that wasn't who I was.
Ever since I decided to accept myself as a 'freak', I've had more friends and been happier than I've ever been.
I hope you are ok and this problem gets sorted out, but just be you and don't worry about those losers.
People have and will say things about you (which could be a lot worse than being called a freak) behind your back. Some will be from people you least expect it to be. If you sit there and cry about them all, you'll never get anything done. Ignore it, leave the fakes behind and carry on with your life.
Original post by JDi98
Today, I overheard someone speaking about me (they thought that I had long left the room, but didn't realise that I had returned, as I had forgotten something).
They stated 'he's a freak, I don't like him'. I know this was clearly about me, as the conversation I heard immediately before this was talking about me.
Worse still, the person said this to people whom I thought were my friends.
Needless to say, I have never felt so low as I do now in a long time.
I have Asperger's which makes me shy socially, but I didn't realise that people hate me. :'(
They stated 'he's a freak, I don't like him'. I know this was clearly about me, as the conversation I heard immediately before this was talking about me.
Worse still, the person said this to people whom I thought were my friends.
Needless to say, I have never felt so low as I do now in a long time.
I have Asperger's which makes me shy socially, but I didn't realise that people hate me. :'(
The person who said that about you is a loser and you shouldn't let them get to you. And I am sorry but in a way at least you know now that those people aren't your true friends, this will give you the chance to surround yourself around people who will truly have your back and will not talk about you behind your back.
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