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*This is not strictly true!
REDOX is when one thing gains electrons and another loses them in a reaction, but these things don't have to be atoms Using accurate terminology is essential!
**This is mostly right but please don't write 'gaining charge' in the exam to explain oxidisation! The charge changes in both reduction and oxidation as they are the loss and gain respectively of neagtively charged electrons.
The oxidising agent is the substance in the reaction which causes something else to be oxidised i.e. it forces the electrons from that other thing onto itself. Hence the thing being oxidised loses electrons and the oxidising agent is itself reduced.
The reducing agent does the opposite: it loses electrons and so forces something else to take them up, and so this thing is reduced, and the reducing agent is itself oxidised.
This is true, but they can also form ionic bonds!
Metals have metallic bonding with themselves. i.e. if you have a lump of sodium, each Na+ ion in it is metallically bonded to the others. The metallic bond is the electrostatic attraction between the ions in the metal and the sea of electrons which surrounds them (these are called delocalised electrons).
BUT they have ionic bonding with non-metals.
E.g. sodium chloride is a metal (sodium) and non metal (chlorine). The structure is a giant lattice held together by strong ionic bonds, which are the eloectrostatic attractions between the metal ions and non-metal ions. As you can see, this is distinctly separate from metallic bonding, although they are both electrostatic attractions.
In fact, you will learn later that the view of 'ionic bonds' and 'covalent bonds' etc as being separate entities is very idealised, all bonds in fact show different degrees of covalency and ionic character. e.g. NaCl is mostly ionic, as explained above, but is also to some extent covalent.
But don't worry about this just yet, get the first bit clear in your head!
Hope this helps
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You mean an oxidizing agent doesn't have to be atoms? That's true, but in the end, the thing causing oxidization and reduction is the change of charge of the individual atoms. I don't understand what's wrong with "gaining charge" though, at that is exactly what the loss of electrons is. Losing charge reduces the charge, which is even what the word reduction comes from.
Btw, Im doing IB chem SL, so I don't know about things being partly covalent and partly ionic, but I'd guess that F2 is purely covalent. Metals bond metallically when they bond to metals of course, they bond ionically when they bond with elements further down the table, usually non-metals, but also some metals very far away. Covalent is between non-metals.