Muslim and horny

Hi I’m a girl virgin in my early twenties who’s recently been feeling really horny and having sexual thoughts and thoughts about doing the deed and imagining myself doing it. I never masturbate and don’t plan to either as i know how addictive it can be for both.

I know this sounds dumb idk, but can any muslim female/male help me on this and help me control these thoughts and urges without committing any haram? What should i do

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Anonymous #2

Hi you ok I understand what going threw its normal I guess

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Satori Tendō

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You're human, Allah doesn't punish us on our thoughts. It's normal for young adults to feel this way but I'm glad you're strong enough to avoid sin by never acting on it. That's real Jihad, daily battles against sin.

I'd say distract yourself with other things. If you're really busy or interested in other areas of life, this will be pushed to the back. Maybe start a personal project, something cool related to a hobby etc... Try filling up your time and thoughts with meaningful things like studying Islamic history, memorising the Qur'an etc...

Being closer to your deen means you are even less likely of wanting to harm it

(edited 3 years ago)

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Anonymous #1

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Original post by Anonymous

Hi you ok I understand what going threw its normal I guess

How do you deal with it?

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Anonymous #1

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Original post by Satori Tendō

You're human, Allah doesn't punish us on our thoughts. It's normal for young adults to feel this way but I'm glad you're strong enough to avoid sin by never acting on it. That's real Jihad, daily battles against sin.

I'd say distract yourself with other things. If you're really busy or interested in other areas of life, this will be pushed to the back. Maybe start a personal project, something cool related to a hobby etc... Try filling up your time and thoughts with meaningful things like studying Islamic history, memorising the Qur'an etc...

Being closer to your deen means you are even less likely of wanting to harm it

Thanks for your reply, i try but then i get these thoughts again and feel so lonely 😭

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Satori Tendō

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Original post by Anonymous

Thanks for your reply, i try but then i get these thoughts again and feel so lonely 😭

If you're looking for a romantic connection, I understand. You should go on the search! There's nothing wrong with seeking it out as long as it's halaal way. Perhaps that yearn for a significant other is manifesting in a desire for physical touch?
Ask your parents that you want to search or there are plenty of ways on apps these days :smile:

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Satori Tendō

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Original post by adam36101

Message me in private ok

Original post by Proxenus

message me and I'm sure we can work something out to solve this problem

Disgusting.

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coldheartedscarz

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Original post by Anonymous

Hi I’m a girl virgin in my early twenties who’s recently been feeling really horny and having sexual thoughts and thoughts about doing the deed and imagining myself doing it. I never masturbate and don’t plan to either as i know how addictive it can be for both.

I know this sounds dumb idk, but can any muslim female/male help me on this and help me control these thoughts and urges without committing any haram? What should i do

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(edited 1 year ago)

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coldheartedscarz

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Original post by coldheartedscarz

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Rottíng Corpse

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Original post by coldheartedscarz

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mr6911

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Original post by Anonymous #1

Hi I’m a girl virgin in my early twenties who’s recently been feeling really horny and having sexual thoughts and thoughts about doing the deed and imagining myself doing it. I never masturbate and don’t plan to either as i know how addictive it can be for both.
I know this sounds dumb idk, but can any muslim female/male help me on this and help me control these thoughts and urges without committing any haram? What should i do

If your interested in a fun chat I'm based London add me. Muslim guy looking to be discreet too.

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Dan76 u 85

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Original post by Anonymous

Hi I’m a girl virgin in my early twenties who’s recently been feeling really horny and having sexual thoughts and thoughts about doing the deed and imagining myself doing it. I never masturbate and don’t plan to either as i know how addictive it can be for both.
I know this sounds dumb idk, but can any muslim female/male help me on this and help me control these thoughts and urges without committing any haram? What should i do

Did u manage to solve your problem?

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Sheikhadamsadiq

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Original post by Dan76 u 85

Did u manage to solve your problem?

Hi my name is Adam I am 18, I am looking for a girlfriend in Bradford West Yorkshire. I have been looking but I can’t find anyone. I don’t care about looks but I just want someone to love me for who I am and how I look.

Reply 13

Anonymous #3

Salaam sister are you still struggling?

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