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Really horny lately.. help

Help.. lately i've been having extreme sexual urges and thoughts.. i get really horny at least every day
i am a muslim girl, and cannot engage in sexual activities. I have tried doing so many things like shifting my focus but it just in the way all the time. I have sexual fantasies every day now like i cant focus on my work properly, please help

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Sexual frustration is a real thing, you need a release. Masturbate. It's healthy and will help
Reply 2
Original post by Apachecow
Sexual frustration is a real thing, you need a release. Masturbate. It's healthy and will help

i tried that but it doesn't help for me, i just get more horny and think dirtier things :frown: its so frustrating
Reply 3
Original post by Anonymous
i tried that but it doesn't help for me, i just get more horny and think dirtier things :frown: its so frustrating

we are not allowed to do it in our religion but i only did it because it was taking away my ability to concentrate and i was going insane.. but i do not plan to continue
Reply 4
Original post by Anonymous
Help.. lately i've been having extreme sexual urges and thoughts.. i get really horny at least every day
i am a muslim girl, and cannot engage in sexual activities. I have tried doing so many things like shifting my focus but it just in the way all the time. I have sexual fantasies every day now like i cant focus on my work properly, please help

sorry i can engage in sexual activity but only after marriage (i'm not married yet)
Original post by Anonymous
i tried that but it doesn't help for me, i just get more horny and think dirtier things :frown: its so frustrating

That means you're not doing it right. Masturbate until you reach orgasm. That will make you feel better. If not you're eventually going to end up hooking up with random people and you will feel a lot worse.
Original post by Anonymous
Help.. lately i've been having extreme sexual urges and thoughts.. i get really horny at least every day
i am a muslim girl, and cannot engage in sexual activities. I have tried doing so many things like shifting my focus but it just in the way all the time. I have sexual fantasies every day now like i cant focus on my work properly, please help

do u need wood? can provide
Age? What are you fantasizing about?
Age and do you watch pornography ?
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Original post by Anonymous
That means you're not doing it right. Masturbate until you reach orgasm. That will make you feel better. If not you're eventually going to end up hooking up with random people and you will feel a lot worse.

I have, and it works temporarily. For the rest of the day at most. I feel like I need to see a doctor for it but I’m embarrassed
Original post by Anonymous
I have tried doing so many things like shifting my focus but it just in the way all the time. I have sexual fantasies every day now like i cant focus on my work properly, please help

can you think about something else
Original post by Anonymous
can you think about something else

i'm trying to do that rn like do something which attracts all of my attention so that i forget about being hirny
Original post by redleader1
Age and do you watch pornography ?

17 and no for religious reasons i do not, plus it makes it worse for me personally
Original post by Anonymous
i'm trying to do that rn like do something which attracts all of my attention so that i forget about being hirny

What is your origin. Do you have friends you can talk with.
Original post by Anonymous
What is your origin. Do you have friends you can talk with.

yes i do, i usually tell them a lot tbh and they are supportive, but idk what to do after that like its not going. i dont tell my family as im shy about it :frown:
wdym by origin?
Original post by Anonymous
yes i do, i usually tell them a lot tbh and they are supportive, but idk what to do after that like its not going. i dont tell my family as im shy about it :frown:
wdym by origin?

Just interested. Do think about white guys? ·It's a hassle for you
Original post by Anonymous
Just interested. Do think about white guys? ·It's a hassle for you

uhh i've had a crush on a white guy before but not really. depends actually.. i don't fantasise about like one specific race lol
but yes it is a hassle ;-; i'm going insane. Also i am south asian, why?
Original post by Anonymous
uhh i've had a crush on a white guy before but not really. depends actually.. i don't fantasise about like one specific race lol
but yes it is a hassle ;-; i'm going insane. Also i am south asian, why?

Just wondered what you fantasize about. Do you think this is a typical problem your friends experiencing the same thing?
Original post by Anonymous
Just wondered what you fantasize about. Do you think this is a typical problem your friends experiencing the same thing?

um like sexual things.. sometimes really kinky stuff, like things i would do or would like to be done to me. yeah. idk if it is because my friends know lowkey im into certain stuff and they laugh but as a joke thats just how we are. they dont necessarily shame me.
Original post by Anonymous
um like sexual things.. sometimes really kinky stuff, like things i would do or would like to be done to me. yeah. idk if it is because my friends know lowkey im into certain stuff and they laugh but as a joke thats just how we are. they dont necessarily shame me.

So guys can be temptation.

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