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Me and my girlfriend have just had a massive argument over msn, we haven’t seen each other the last 4 days just because of work and stuff and she was “busy” and I was supposed to see her 2night but she’s says she has to stay in because her brother coming back from uni, but she must have know this before 2day and didn’t mention it before, and say normally always come to mine on a Sunday night. Anyway she is really pissed of at me because I haven’t txt her or left her any messages or anything I left her a MySpace message saying I miss her and stuff, iv got no credit atm so I couldn’t txt her, she knows this tho.

We finally had a chance to talk on msn just now and it was basically a massive rant about how I don’t care and she’s sick or not hearing from me and stuff yet I invited her over yesterday and 2night and she cant so….this has happened once before she just gets really paranoid if she doesn’t actually see me in a few days…thing is tho 2moro is her 18th and I need to give her, her present 2night if possible its like a cute cheeky gift aswel she will not be impressed in her current mood, she has just singed out of msn and I duno wtf to to……

Reply 1

emmarainbow

Meet her tomorrow? Do something relaxing and nice with her? Flowers?
Find out what's wrong if possible. Doesn't sound like you're the bad guy, although there might be something wrong and she's taking it out on you, or she thinks that you've done something wrong.

Reply 2

aMAXin

lol what you get her?

Reply 3

Ywiss

Anonymous

Me and my girlfriend have just had a massive argument over msn

Anonymous

she was “busy”

Anonymous

she’s says she has to stay in because her brother coming back from uni, but she must have know this before 2day and didn’t mention it before

Anonymous

she is really pissed of at me

Anonymous

it was basically a massive rant about how I don’t care and she’s sick or not hearing from me and stuff

Sounds as if she wants to break up with you but wants you to do it. The signs are there.

Reply 4

ethiokid

talk to her
tell her your sorry
meet her a.s.a.p.
the longer you leave it the more she will get pissed of at you
buy her something she likes and take it step by step dont rush

Reply 5

PhilMc

Jesus H Christ.

What age are you? It is fine to communicate via MSN and MySpace but to have full-blown arguments over it? Instead of asking on here, ******* phone her! I know you have no credit but if you want to fix it find a way! Get somebody else's phone.

Reply 6

an_end_has_a_start

if you have a car or she lives close, leave the cute present outside with a note just saying 'sorry x' knock on the door and leave

Reply 7

PhilMc

an_end_has_a_start

if you have a car or she lives close, leave the cute present outside with a note just saying 'sorry x' knock on the door and leave

Awwww, how romantic. :o:

*Ahem* -- Must return to being manly.

Reply 8

D-Day

PhilMc

*Ahem* -- Must return to being manly.

No chance of that now, I'm afraid :p:

Reply 9

an_end_has_a_start

PhilMc

Awwww, how romantic. :o:

*Ahem* -- Must return to being manly.

romantic indeed :-)

it'd sure win me over, then again i'm as soft as mashed potato so...

Reply 10

PhilMc

an_end_has_a_start

romantic indeed :-)

it'd sure win me over, then again i'm as soft as mashed potato so...

Moi aussi.

I think my girlfriend knows this and thus always takes advantage of this fact. :frown:

Reply 11

an_end_has_a_start

PhilMc

Moi aussi.

I think my girlfriend knows this and thus always takes advantage of this fact. :frown:

haha i don't blame her!!
:p:

Reply 12

shorty.loves.angels

I sometimes get a bit stressed like that if I'm honest. I would seriously pick up the phone though mate. She might well have known her brother was coming home but maybe didn't realise that meant she couldn't see you. Can't you go round tomorrow with her present? Or go round now... It might be late but surely it's worth it. Just prove that you DO want to see her, however you can. Good luck :smile: