I've also been finding out this year that not all gap years go to plan! I'm travelling but have ended up in quite an unhappy spot, so I'm coming home for a bit to regroup. I feel lost and lonely, and like I've messed up by taking a gap year. But I've still learnt a lot from the experience, even though it hasn't gone how I thought it would! Maybe try to think of a couple of things that this year has given you, whether it be new interests or motivation to change your situation or a realisation of what doesn't tick your boxes. I've also found that looking to the future and making progressive plans is a good way to not dwell in the unpleasant past or present. Maybe university isn't for you, maybe it is, but whatever you feel I would recommend spending some time thinking about what does interest you and putting together a little plan for when your gap year does 'end'. I think changing your situation/environment is the best way to pull yourself out of the limbo! And it makes for an excellent distraction from your current feelings.