How far do you agree with beauty in a woman is a prerequisite?

How is that messed up thinking? Could you please explain?

It's so easy if you're a girl and have lots of male attention. I get nothing.

I would even go as far as saying that my existence and self-worth is only validated if I get male attention.

Because if a boy doesn't look at you, you'll never get a boyfriend, you'll be a virgin forever, you'll never reproduce, you'll be lonely and bitter and jealous for your whole life.
That to me is a pretty worthless existence.

Very few people are as unhappy and perceive life as darkly as you do. I think this has been demonstrated by your countless number of red gems and reputation across the forum.

Easy? Are you ****ing kidding me.
It is a bloody nightmare.

Sexual assault and harassment, my favourite, just what I need to validate myself as a person. NOT.

Well that is a problem with your mentality and has nothing to do with your looks. No wonder no guys like you if you have that little self worth.

Then you're not meeting the right people if you're experiencing sexual assault/harassment. The problem is not your beauty, it's little ****s who think they can do whatever they want to a woman.

Really? I'm quite surprised by that remark you've made.

I don't meet them generally they just grope me/shout at me and there is very little I can do other than radically changing my lifestyle (never going to clubs/wearing some sort of burkah/constantly making myself look horrific) to avoid it

You have the highest number of red gems of any member across the whole forum and you're not even trolling - that is an exceptionally large opinion:neg ratio. Have you not ever thought that perhaps you should see a counsellor or something? It's like you blame all your problems on your appearance, including things completely unrelated, and that certainly ain't healthy.

Get your boyfriend to batter those ****s up.

That would probably result with my bf getting beaten up himself or in jail.... Not really desired.

That's how I feel genuinely. It just makes me question my whole existence.

On things completely unrelated? Like what?

What can a counselor really do? Nothing. They're useless.

It shouldn't be this way. Your boyfriend shouldn't be the one going to prison, it should be the men who treat you that way.

You judge the extent and quality of your existence by the propinquity of boy's attention? Seriously buy a pet, find a hobby, pick up a Chemistry set and be useful; be attracted to ideas. Do something else with your time.

Also I agree with CJKay (for once :P) seeing a counselor could really help with your self worth issues. They aren't at all useless and I would say if anything from your posts it is likely you are suffering from some sort of personality disorder, which a counselor can help with. They aren't useless at all, they help people through some really tough issues.

You have nothing to lose so you may as well give it a go, the worst thing that is going to happen is you get to rant at how unfair the world is to someone without them arguing back

Yeah I know that but I don't think beating them up is the best way to change attitudes in all honesty. I will stick to police reporting and talking to the civilly.

On things completely unrelated? Like what?

What can a counselor really do? Nothing. They're useless.

They're not useless - they were the only thing that prevented someone close to me from actually succeeding in their suicide attempts.

I don't have self worth issues and I do not have some sort of personality disorders.

So you don't think you are inferior because of the way you look?
Because if you do that sounds a lot like an inferiority complex to me...

It's not just about relationships. It's also about sex.

When guys see me, I want guys to think "I would have sex with that". That would make me happy.

Sure, I would love to think I'm "relationship material", but I also want the knowledge that I'm worthy of having sex with guys.

To feel an orgasm with a guy you want must be (one of the) best things ever. And I can't have that.

This is on the verge of sounding slutty. Maybe change your way of thinking by feeling positive and men will notice this confidence and want to be around you. Who knows, every guy is different!

ISA is just shallow and bitter. I don't know why people keep falling for her threads.