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Being a quiet person and applying for a Primary PGCE...

Basically, I'm in my second year at uni and I'm wanting to apply for a PGCE to be a primary school teacher. I will have to apply in September. But I've been trying to think of my own personal qualities and what qualities a primary school teacher 'should' have..

I'm just quite a naturally quiet person. Like I am trying hard to be louder but it's hard like in a work enviroment I tend to be much more quieter than the other people at work. Because I work in retail it has an effect on my customer service because sometimes with music on etc, some customers can't hear me. But my customer service (apart from being quiet) is good, like I'm patient, listening, polite and friendly. Just I don't have a loud tone of voice.

I'm a bit scared of being a primary school teacher and being naturally quiet because I have a feeling that it might hold me back from becoming a teacher. I also have a job as a student host for my uni which involves giving tours and presentations (it's not as often as my retail job) but I have tried to project my voice and I think it's ok but sometimes might not be loud enough. I feel confident in myself. I just think when I'm with my nephew, niece and little brother (ages from 3-4) I'm not good when it comes to managing behaviour but I'm good at other things e.g. caring for them.

I think I wouldn't be good at managing bad behaviour in the classroom. I really don't want my quiet-ness to stop me from being a successful primary school teacher or even getting onto a PGCE. Does anyone have any advice please?

Is being quiet a weakness for a primary school teacher?

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Reply 1
Depends, I had a scary teacher who rarely spoke :wink:

Before starting a PGCE you'll have to get work experience in a school, so write to local schools asking if you can volunteer, that's the only way to judge how you'd handle it :smile:
Reply 2
Original post by Skip_Snip
Depends, I had a scary teacher who rarely spoke :wink:

Before starting a PGCE you'll have to get work experience in a school, so write to local schools asking if you can volunteer, that's the only way to judge how you'd handle it :smile:


Well I do talk lol. I have volunteered in schools before and have a 6 week placement in a school this June.
Reply 3
Original post by lalala1
Basically, I'm in my second year at uni and I'm wanting to apply for a PGCE to be a primary school teacher. I will have to apply in September. But I've been trying to think of my own personal qualities and what qualities a primary school teacher 'should' have..

I'm just quite a naturally quiet person. Like I am trying hard to be louder but it's hard like in a work enviroment I tend to be much more quieter than the other people at work. Because I work in retail it has an effect on my customer service because sometimes with music on etc, some customers can't hear me. But my customer service (apart from being quiet) is good, like I'm patient, listening, polite and friendly. Just I don't have a loud tone of voice.

I'm a bit scared of being a primary school teacher and being naturally quiet because I have a feeling that it might hold me back from becoming a teacher. I also have a job as a student host for my uni which involves giving tours and presentations (it's not as often as my retail job) but I have tried to project my voice and I think it's ok but sometimes might not be loud enough. I feel confident in myself. I just think when I'm with my nephew, niece and little brother (ages from 3-4) I'm not good when it comes to managing behaviour but I'm good at other things e.g. caring for them.

I think I wouldn't be good at managing bad behaviour in the classroom. I really don't want my quiet-ness to stop me from being a successful primary school teacher or even getting onto a PGCE. Does anyone have any advice please?

Is being quiet a weakness for a primary school teacher?

So long as quiet does not equal shy then you should be fine. You will need to project your voice when teaching though to make sure all the class hear you.
Behaviour management is a MASSIVE part of teaching, but should come with experience.
Reply 4
Being quiet shouldn't hold you back - teachers come in all different personality types and you will receive all the training you need to help you manage behaviour and use your voice effectively as part of the PGCE.

However I would say that perhaps you might benefit from a little 'real life' experience before you go into teaching. Working in an office or other professional environment for a while will teach you the skills that good teachers need - confidence, assertiveness, time management, people management, etc. I don't think going straight from school to university and then back to school is necessarily the best method for creating successful teachers. Many teachers have never left the playground and it shows. You don't sound like you have very much self confidence and you'll need that in spades to cope as a teacher - not necessarily just with the kids, but with your colleagues, too. Schools are tricky places in which to work; most teachers will tell you that it's the adults who cause them the most problems, not the kids! I know you want to get started on a career straight away, but there really is no rush. The best teachers in my school are the ones who came to teaching as a second career. They're the best people to work alongside too - because they've actually grown up!
Reply 5
Original post by rachelsays
Being quiet shouldn't hold you back - teachers come in all different personality types and you will receive all the training you need to help you manage behaviour and use your voice effectively as part of the PGCE.

However I would say that perhaps you might benefit from a little 'real life' experience before you go into teaching. Working in an office or other professional environment for a while will teach you the skills that good teachers need - confidence, assertiveness, time management, people management, etc. I don't think going straight from school to university and then back to school is necessarily the best method for creating successful teachers. Many teachers have never left the playground and it shows. You don't sound like you have very much self confidence and you'll need that in spades to cope as a teacher - not necessarily just with the kids, but with your colleagues, too. Schools are tricky places in which to work; most teachers will tell you that it's the adults who cause them the most problems, not the kids! I know you want to get started on a career straight away, but there really is no rush. The best teachers in my school are the ones who came to teaching as a second career. They're the best people to work alongside too - because they've actually grown up!


Thanks. I think I'm going to apply for a PGCE and if I don't get a place I will do a year or two as a teaching assistant then apply again if I still want to.
Reply 6
The best teacher I ever had (at secondary, mind) was incredibly quietly spoken- you will have no problem. In fact if you can't shout there will be no temptation to do so! I 'have a go' at shouting and it never ends well for me!
Reply 7
Original post by noodles!
The best teacher I ever had (at secondary, mind) was incredibly quietly spoken- you will have no problem. In fact if you can't shout there will be no temptation to do so! I 'have a go' at shouting and it never ends well for me!


I'm thinking I should try and turn it into a positive. Like someone said, I'd get practice and training on behaviour management. And because I'm aware of it, and feel maybe it may be my weakness, I can practice when I next go into a school etc. I think I would love to work with Early Years/Key stage 1. I think having a quiet, gentle voice with younger children can work well but also I know I'd have to be firm when needed. It will all work itself out. Thank you
Original post by lalala1
Basically, I'm in my second year at uni and I'm wanting to apply for a PGCE to be a primary school teacher. I will have to apply in September. But I've been trying to think of my own personal qualities and what qualities a primary school teacher 'should' have..

I'm just quite a naturally quiet person. Like I am trying hard to be louder but it's hard like in a work enviroment I tend to be much more quieter than the other people at work. Because I work in retail it has an effect on my customer service because sometimes with music on etc, some customers can't hear me. But my customer service (apart from being quiet) is good, like I'm patient, listening, polite and friendly. Just I don't have a loud tone of voice.

I'm a bit scared of being a primary school teacher and being naturally quiet because I have a feeling that it might hold me back from becoming a teacher. I also have a job as a student host for my uni which involves giving tours and presentations (it's not as often as my retail job) but I have tried to project my voice and I think it's ok but sometimes might not be loud enough. I feel confident in myself. I just think when I'm with my nephew, niece and little brother (ages from 3-4) I'm not good when it comes to managing behaviour but I'm good at other things e.g. caring for them.

I think I wouldn't be good at managing bad behaviour in the classroom. I really don't want my quiet-ness to stop me from being a successful primary school teacher or even getting onto a PGCE. Does anyone have any advice please?

Is being quiet a weakness for a primary school teacher?


I can't stress enough how much you should get some on the job experience. I thought I wanted to be a primary school teacher, I thought I'd be good at it because I'm quite a loud and entertaining person, but I found I wasn't nearly patient enough and I've ended up doing something completely different. If I hadn't done the work experience I wouldn't have known that and might have wasted three years at uni doing something that just wasn't right for me. Good luck.
Reply 9
I remember I had this primary school teacher called Mrs Ambrose, she seemed to be so sweet and soft spoken (she was really old too) but everyone was scared of her and the class was always silent. She was the best teacher ever, one of my overall favourites so don't worry! :smile:
Reply 10
Original post by Kateislate
I can't stress enough how much you should get some on the job experience. I thought I wanted to be a primary school teacher, I thought I'd be good at it because I'm quite a loud and entertaining person, but I found I wasn't nearly patient enough and I've ended up doing something completely different. If I hadn't done the work experience I wouldn't have known that and might have wasted three years at uni doing something that just wasn't right for me. Good luck.


Thank you. I've had some work experience volunteering in schools (from being in college) and I have a 6 week placement in June which is volunteering as a classroom assistant. I feel like I'm a patient person and don't get angry if something takes a while to achieve. I don't know if I'll be a good teacher (i can only hope and try my best) but I don't want my quiet-ness to put me off from at least trying.
Reply 11
Confidence grows with experience; as long as you know within yourself that you can be firm when needed and have the confidence to speak to classes, do presentations and deal with parents, then being quiet is ok :smile:

It sounds like you have a good attitude towards this anyway, kids and colleagues will respect that.
Reply 12
I have a place on Teacher Training (Teach First) for when I graduate.
I used to be a very shy and quiet child, I had low confidence naturally. It is only since uni I have addressed it and to my uni friends I am pretty confident and they are shocked if I say I used to be quiet. I still have the good things about being quiet in me, like you say, being a good listener, patient and caring. There are days I like my own company and really in your face loud people irritate me!
To improve my quietness, I did loads and loads of things with children and work in a school, I got really confident that it is something I am good at and love. That, combined with being a lot better at making conversation and not worrying what people think of me, gave me the confidence and I really have changed a lot. Ifeel much better about myself from diving into opportunities and meeting new people and not being the quiet one in the corner.
I knew teaching was what I wanted to do and that I am capable of it- but that to get on a course I had to also SHOW the assessors this.
Anyway, going off topic a bit!

In terms of being quiet and teaching, it is ok to be a quiet person, you have- as you point out- many attributes others lack! I had some quiet teachers and even though I'm more confident now, I'm never going to be a super loud, crazy teacher. But I will be an excellent one in my own style. You need to be confident in front of a class and be able to almost 'get in role' as a teacher - fake it until you make it!
Get some experience in schools to see if you can definitely see yourself doing what teachers do. Theres no shame in admitting in reality it isnt for you, there are lots of other jobs with kids. Are you confident but quiet? You need to be confident teaching to believe in what you are doing and be assertive.
You will be taught behaviour management, don't imagine it to be shouting at children- that is awful management! It is actually much subtler and quieter things like how you keep them engaged, wait for silence before talking, setting clear expectations, high standards from day 1 etc.

Sounds like you need to look into it more as to if it is for you- don't let being quiet put you off as long as you can see yourself doing it successfully and being confident.
Reply 13
Original post by snapchat
I have a place on Teacher Training (Teach First) for when I graduate.
I used to be a very shy and quiet child, I had low confidence naturally. It is only since uni I have addressed it and to my uni friends I am pretty confident and they are shocked if I say I used to be quiet. I still have the good things about being quiet in me, like you say, being a good listener, patient and caring. There are days I like my own company and really in your face loud people irritate me!
To improve my quietness, I did loads and loads of things with children and work in a school, I got really confident that it is something I am good at and love. That, combined with being a lot better at making conversation and not worrying what people think of me, gave me the confidence and I really have changed a lot. Ifeel much better about myself from diving into opportunities and meeting new people and not being the quiet one in the corner.
I knew teaching was what I wanted to do and that I am capable of it- but that to get on a course I had to also SHOW the assessors this.
Anyway, going off topic a bit!

In terms of being quiet and teaching, it is ok to be a quiet person, you have- as you point out- many attributes others lack! I had some quiet teachers and even though I'm more confident now, I'm never going to be a super loud, crazy teacher. But I will be an excellent one in my own style. You need to be confident in front of a class and be able to almost 'get in role' as a teacher - fake it until you make it!
Get some experience in schools to see if you can definitely see yourself doing what teachers do. Theres no shame in admitting in reality it isnt for you, there are lots of other jobs with kids. Are you confident but quiet? You need to be confident teaching to believe in what you are doing and be assertive.
You will be taught behaviour management, don't imagine it to be shouting at children- that is awful management! It is actually much subtler and quieter things like how you keep them engaged, wait for silence before talking, setting clear expectations, high standards from day 1 etc.

Sounds like you need to look into it more as to if it is for you- don't let being quiet put you off as long as you can see yourself doing it successfully and being confident.


Thank you! I'm doing a 6 week placement full-time in June, so I'm hoping this will help me to decide. The most I have stayed in a primary school for is 2 full weeks but that was in year 10 high school! Then I did one full week in college, and then volunteered an afternoon a week for 3months. I do think it was good experience at the time, but I feel like I should spend a good solid amount of time in a school. Is the Teacher Training course based in the classroom? Like on the job training? If so, maybe I should consider that to get more hands on experience.
Reply 14
Original post by lalala1
Thank you! I'm doing a 6 week placement full-time in June, so I'm hoping this will help me to decide. The most I have stayed in a primary school for is 2 full weeks but that was in year 10 high school! Then I did one full week in college, and then volunteered an afternoon a week for 3months. I do think it was good experience at the time, but I feel like I should spend a good solid amount of time in a school. Is the Teacher Training course based in the classroom? Like on the job training? If so, maybe I should consider that to get more hands on experience.



Yeah, you have done a lot in a school so should know if it is for you or not :smile:
If you are applying a PGCE that will be a mixture of university with long blocks of placement too- most of your time on placement I think and you will gradually start to take classes but with someone supporting you and observing you.
Teach First is different. You do 6 weeks training in the summer holiday after uni and then start in September as a teacher in a school in a deprived area. Teach First is all about breaking the link between low parental income and low attainment and helping children from deprived backgrounds have the same opportunities and success as other children. It is super intense- you start in the school teaching full lessons from the start. You have full responsibility for your classes progress, results, parents evenings and everything else! The two year 'Teach First Programme' is meant to almost kill a lot of people as it is so tricky. That said, I think a lot of those people wouldn't have had much experience in the classroom and so don't know what to expect and how tough teaching is.

Teach First is very different from the PGCE, I chose it for financial reasons, the fact it is in deprived areas, i really believe in what they are doing as a company and I think their approach to teacher training will suit me. It isn't for everyone though and none of the teaching routes are better or worse than each other. I looked into it loads and was torn between it and a PGCE or School Direct for ages. So look into them all and decide what you will feel most comfortable with. Also look at their interview process- Teach First is a very intense assessment centre where you have to show 8 competencies through an interview, group case study task and teaching a 7 minute lesson. PCGEs tend to not be competency based selection processes which may suit some people better as they are more personal.

HTH
I was once told, by a very wise teacher, that if you shout, it's a sign that you've lost control. There are many strategies for controlling a class, shouting shouldn't be one of them. Although, I have to confess, that occasionally...
It is only a problem, when you are so quiet, that it becomes difficult for some pupils to understand you. It becomes crucial, if these students have some real (maybe only very small, but still it can have an effect) disabilities concerning hearing OR in some situations (trip outside of school in a very loud environment, etc.). Another group of students who may have problems with a very quiet teacher are Immigrants, because they already have to concentrate more to understand all, what he is saying. Nevertheless shy and quiet is not the same and you can train your voice, e.g. singing or acting, which should be fun and may give you some techniques to use more facets of your voice.

I am only saying that, because you meant some costumers can't hear you.

Concerning authority: No, that is determined by a lot of things and unless you are too quiet to be understood, I can't remember a teacher having lost authority because of being "a quiet one". Staying quiet at school is not easy. :smile:
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Reply 17
Original post by Nathanielle
It is only a problem, when you are so quiet, that it becomes difficult for some pupils to understand you. It becomes crucial, if these students have some real (maybe only very small, but still it can have an effect) disabilities concerning hearing OR in some situations (trip outside of school in a very loud environment, etc.). Another group of students who may have problems with a very quiet teacher are Immigrants, because they already have to concentrate more to understand all, what he is saying. Nevertheless shy and quiet is not the same and you can train your voice, e.g. singing or acting, which should be fun and may give you some techniques to use more facets of your voice.

I am only saying that, because you meant some costumers can't hear you.

Concerning authority: No, that is determined by a lot of things and unless you are too quiet to be understood, I can't remember a teacher having lost authority because of being "a quiet one". Staying quiet at school is not easy. :smile:


Yeah I understand what you mean. I guess I'm going to have to try and work on projecting my voice for situations like that. Thanks
Reply 18
Original post by lalala1
Yeah I understand what you mean. I guess I'm going to have to try and work on projecting my voice for situations like that. Thanks


With the whole projection thing, this will come with confidence. I used to work doing sports classes as my Saturday job. I had to cover the Lead Coach one week as they were ill, I had been there a while and without thinking I shouted the register and instructions to about 70 children across a huge sports hall with a full balcony of parents watching. I remember afterwards thinking wow, I didn't even know I could do that or had a voice that loud!
Reply 19
How about taking acting lessons or seeing a voice coach to try and learn how to speak a little louder when you need to?


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