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Reply 2840
Original post by octoberbaby
Can I get in on the skype chats? I'm on it pretty much all the time...
Original post by superwolf
Sure, PM me your username. :smile:


I would like to add more people on Skype from here as well. Would you guys be able to PM me your usernames please?

Original post by PonchoKid

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my heads a mess :frown:

everythings going around in my head and i dont know what to do. to many things to talk to different drs about. still loads of uni work to do with 0 motivation to actually do it

just want to give up on life :cry2:
I really don't want to see my counsellor; my body is making sure that I don't.

When I think about going and telling the counsellor about my uregs and problems in my previous post, I get dizzy, hot and my heart beats really, really fast.

I seriously don't know what to do.
Reply 2843
Original post by avhhs
Not looking good I think :sad:

Last exam was today :smile:. That went well too. But now I've got a bleak future ahead. While many people are so excited for the summer and partying, going on holiday, and hanging around with friends, I haven't got anything :sad:. I do have my prom next week but for some reason I'm not looking forward to it :erm:. That is next week but after that it is all empty. Nothing good at all. I don't know whether it is my fault or not I didn't manage to make close friends during the last few years. Ok so my parents had stupid rules, didn't support me with it and those people in school weren't really my type and I was bullied, but surely it is my fault for not having in interest in music and football and trying to make sure I can fit in as well as I can? What 18 year old has no social life? Everyone my age spends a significant amount of time with friends whether outside or in, or with their cousins as an alternative. But here you have me with no cousins around my age and with no friends. On top of that my anger and violent thoughts are beginning to come back big time after suppressing them for ages. Doesn't make for a good summer at all. What will I say to people when I'm asked what I'm up to, or how my summer was? Or what will I say to my future children about my childhood? :cry2:

Or am I being stupid yet again? :sad:


I plan to tell people I spent my summer playing Minecraft - which is the truth. If people don't like what I did the summer, **** them to put it bluntly. Do you not have any interest in music? And are you interested in other sports like cricket? You've managed to do okay at MH meets haven't you? Could you not look at taking something up to fill your time?
Haven't posted on here for ages (probably the last thread or the one before that :rolleyes:)
Might aswell introduce myself again I guess; I have depression, anxiety, ptsd and aspergers. Talking about summer I finish college next week, then I'm going to do some volunteering, try and drag myself out for walks and bike rides, just try to keep busy I guess.
Original post by kahinalouise
Haven't posted on here for ages (probably the last thread or the one before that :rolleyes:)
Might aswell introduce myself again I guess; I have depression, anxiety, ptsd and aspergers. Talking about summer I finish college next week, then I'm going to do some volunteering, try and drag myself out for walks and bike rides, just try to keep busy I guess.


Hello! :hugs: Long time no see!

What kind of volunteering you going to be doing? I'm thinking of seeing if any mental health wards want volunteering for anything where I am - something along the lines of what fire2burn's been doing.
Original post by kahinalouise
Haven't posted on here for ages (probably the last thread or the one before that :rolleyes:)
Might aswell introduce myself again I guess; I have depression, anxiety, ptsd and aspergers. Talking about summer I finish college next week, then I'm going to do some volunteering, try and drag myself out for walks and bike rides, just try to keep busy I guess.


I'm going to also drag myself out for walks/hikes! I'm actually planning a long-distance hike in Devon or Cornwall sometime. Really need to keep myself busy or else I'll just revert back to a bed-ridden mess now that school's over.

Nice to meet you btw :h:
Reply 2847
Our fridge freezer just packed in. Motor has gone. Great another thing to worry about. No food now - at least my mum could come pick the food up. But now we have to get a new fridge freezer. On top of the baby expenses... And we have no savings for this sort of thing. So not doing well.
Original post by HmMusic
Our fridge freezer just packed in. Motor has gone. Great another thing to worry about. No food now - at least my mum could come pick the food up. But now we have to get a new fridge freezer. On top of the baby expenses... And we have no savings for this sort of thing. So not doing well.


could you ask local charities prehaps?
i know when my sister moves into a new flat shes getting £100 voucher for a local cheaap furniture shop to buy stuff because she has nothing and is having a baby in september... might be worth a shot :hugs:

Original post by HmMusic

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in pain and feeling like ****, i literally dont know what to do about anything, but no tears left after last night :frown: cant do this at the moment :cry2:
i wish i could make better decisions, and i wish i had somebody outside of myself to give me a sense of perspective.........i feel very trapped and confused about life generally. hopefully living in a different environment will help somehow.
Original post by superwolf
Hello! :hugs: Long time no see!

What kind of volunteering you going to be doing? I'm thinking of seeing if any mental health wards want volunteering for anything where I am - something along the lines of what fire2burn's been doing.


I know :smile: , I've been trying to pass my AS exams for the second time.
I'm going to volunteer for a charity book store that gives out books for free and in an organic allotment place where I can help package and sell the produce.
Thats sounds good, I remember fire2burn talking about that, it sounded nice being able to support people like that, If I was in that situation I would appreciate someone understanding and more familiar to talk with so theres no harm in asking I guess.


Original post by Hellz_Bellz!
I'm going to also drag myself out for walks/hikes! I'm actually planning a long-distance hike in Devon or Cornwall sometime. Really need to keep myself busy or else I'll just revert back to a bed-ridden mess now that school's over.

Nice to meet you btw :h:


Nice to meet you too :smile: , that sounds nice good luck with it, I love the cliffs around there, generally the views are amazing :redface:. I agree, otherwise I will be in bed till the afternoon
Reply 2851
So my plan for tomorrow is to make a gp appointment, there's one at my practice who specialises in mental health but I can't remember her name. Annoyed at myself a bit because my mum made me an appointment to see her on saturday morning but I couldn't make it and was really annoyed since I told her the week before not to make any appointments for me.


So yeah, calling to make gp appointments because it didn't give me a panic attack last time :s-smilie:

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Reply 2852
I feel like giving up tonight.


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What happened?
Original post by Malevolent
What happened?

Nothing yet but it's only a matter of time with me.
Original post by octoberbaby
Nothing yet but it's only a matter of time with me.


Awww why? I'm sure you're a really good person to have in peoples lives!
Original post by lonelybrummie
I really don't want to see my counsellor; my body is making sure that I don't.

When I think about going and telling the counsellor about my uregs and problems in my previous post, I get dizzy, hot and my heart beats really, really fast.

I seriously don't know what to do.


Hang on in there. There's time to work out what you are going to say. You don't have to say anything which makes you too uncomfortable.

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Original post by octoberbaby
IDK just everyone in my life either ends up either ****ed up or more ****ed up. I shouldn't be around people.


It's not your fault. It's a natural part of life and happens to almost everyone. The only reason it's happening to them is because they're the people you notice it happening to. Even if it is linked to you, if it wasn't you it'd be somebody else. You're a wonderful person and people appreciate you for it (take it from me). :hugs:


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Original post by octoberbaby
Nothing yet but it's only a matter of time with me.


Aww hunny I know how you feel. :hugs: message me if you need. I won't reply too soon but I will reply.
You are in control if you and you can stop things. If you notice a pattern you CAN change it! :hugs:


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