I'm pan (i started that pan post if you've seen it) but my boyfriend doesn't know. and it's killing me that i'm lying to him. so i asked today what he though of gay people, and he said they're weird. weird. i just.. i feel i should tell him but i can't after today. everything is a mess
I'm pan (i started that pan post if you've seen it) but my boyfriend doesn't know. and it's killing me that i'm lying to him. so i asked today what he though of gay people, and he said they're weird. weird. i just.. i feel i should tell him but i can't after today. everything is a mess
Sorry I haven't seen it
Talking to him about sexuality might help him come to realise what he said is not true. Allow him to explain himself because he might have said the wrong word when he meant another...although the alternatives of said word doesn't seem bright.
Besides, if this guy truly thinks that homosexuality is weird and/or pan-sexuality etc. is too, does he really deserve to be in your life never-mind being your boyfriend?
The only thing that you could have done was possibly telling him to begin with prior to committing a relationship with him (excluding this hindsight thing), because if he reacted badly to it, you'd have dodged the biggest bullet. However, the stigma that is around us today in regards to sexuality and mental health makes me understand why you didn't
Talking to him about sexuality might help him come to realise what he said is not true. Allow him to explain himself because he might have said the wrong word when he meant another...although the alternatives of said word doesn't seem bright.
Besides, if this guy truly thinks that homosexuality is weird and/or pan-sexuality etc. is too, does he really deserve to be in your life never-mind being your boyfriend?
The only thing that you could have done was possibly telling him to begin with prior to committing a relationship with him (excluding this hindsight thing), because if he reacted badly to it, you'd have dodged the biggest bullet. However, the stigma that is around us even now in regards to sexuality and mental health makes me udnerstand why you didn't
All I need to become friends with her again is accept that it's not because I wasn't good enough that she left but because it was impossible to become long term due to our cultural differences. I've took a year reaching this point,
At the end of the day, it's your decision and you should do what you feel will make you happier Regardless of the outcome, the MHSS will be here for you
At the end of the day, it's your decision and you should do what you feel will make you happier Regardless of the outcome, the MHSS will be here for you
oh i'll alway end up back here for som reason or another