My great uncle has been in hospital for 11 weeks now and it's driving me mad. It take 40 minutes to get there, another 10 to park and walk to the hospital, AGES to wait for a lift.. and then the same on the way back. It costs £4 a time on the car park, plus fuel, and I cannot afford it, but have to afford it because we're the only family he has! So that's several times a week and it's stressing me out. Because I'm self employed so if I'm spending so much time hospital visiting I'm also not earning! So coming at me from all angles at the moment.