Thanks. I thought it was hilarious tbh, but my concern is that I think this user "knows"/found me via MHSS and I don't want others to get triggered by receiving similar PMs
My girlfriend is clingy, demanding, authorative and immature. I'm honestly not sure if we'll work out in the long term but if feels pointless to end it now while we're still on alright terms (although it's mundane and boring now it works for me in my current situation). Am I a bad person for staying with her? There's still a lot of good times but it's becoming tiring and difficult for us both.
My girlfriend is clingy, demanding, authorative and immature. I'm honestly not sure if we'll work out in the long term but if feels pointless to end it now while we're still on alright terms (although it's mundane and boring now it works for me in my current situation). Am I a bad person for staying with her? There's still a lot of good times but it's becoming tiring and difficult for us both.
I personally couldn't stay with someone if I felt it wasn't going to work out in the long run. That's just me though. It doesn't make you a bad person, though I do wonder about your reasoning for staying together. Do you really wanna drag it out further?
I personally couldn't stay with someone if I felt it wasn't going to work out in the long run. That's just me though. It doesn't make you a bad person, though I do wonder about your reasoning for staying together. Do you really wanna drag it out further?
I haven't. I'm not sure what they'd be able to do for you, but then I've never entirely understood what 111 is exactly for
I guess I see it as the best thing for the time being. I find it extremely hard to meet new people and I'm worried I'd not find anyone else ever again. Also we have a lot of cool stuff booked together coming up this year that I still want to do without it being awkward.
I guess I see it as the best thing for the time being. I find it extremely hard to meet new people and I'm worried I'd not find anyone else ever again. Also we have a lot of cool stuff booked together coming up this year that I still want to do without it being awkward.
Ah I see where you're coming from now - that makes more sense, I guess Though I'm sure you would find someone else
I'm glad that it's not totally unreasonable. I've debated with myself a lot as to whether it's morally wrong to stay with her under these circumstances. I still love her, so I guess it's not wrong.
Thanks. I thought it was hilarious tbh, but my concern is that I think this user "knows"/found me via MHSS and I don't want others to get triggered by receiving similar PMs
Thats what id be worrying about, better safe than sorry!
I'm glad that it's not totally unreasonable. I've debated with myself a lot as to whether it's morally wrong to stay with her under these circumstances. I still love her, so I guess it's not wrong.
I'm glad that it's not totally unreasonable. I've debated with myself a lot as to whether it's morally wrong to stay with her under these circumstances. I still love her, so I guess it's not wrong.
I know this is probably really unhelpful, but have you tried talking to her about what's bothering you? It might be that she has no idea how you're feeling and the only way she's gonna know is if you tell her. She might have her own doubts about the relationship too. If you still love her and have so much planned to do together then I don't think it's wrong to stay with her.