getting too invested in guys

I need help!!
I always seem to find myself getting too invested in a guy very early on, and I just end up breaking my heart over and over and over again. What do I do?
Like this guy I met two weeks ago, we've met up a good few times, things going well then today we had an argument and I cannot stop crying! Like this is not normal!
I'm just out of a very serious relationship if that's anything, but I can't keep doing thiss to myself!

Hold some of yourself back and expect the worst. Pessimism can be good for you in this instance.

Hey, try to take things slower and get to know people better before you place so much trust in them, arguments are a natural part of any relationship and too much familiarity (or too little) can cause them, it's a good idea to maintain some distance in the beginning so try pacing it out, only meet once a week for a month (for about 3 hours), it sounds really slow and bad but if you meet someone who is willing to wait to spend time with you, you can count on them to wait when things go badly. I speak from experience of having a crash and burn relationship recently.

Better yourself before going into a relationship.

Pursue your interests and become a person you can respect and love.

Only then should you enter into a relationship.

I need help!!
I always seem to find myself getting too invested in a guy very early on, and I just end up breaking my heart over and over and over again. What do I do?
Like this guy I met two weeks ago, we've met up a good few times, things going well then today we had an argument and I cannot stop crying! Like this is not normal!
I'm just out of a very serious relationship if that's anything, but I can't keep doing thiss to myself!

I need help!!
I always seem to find myself getting too invested in a guy very early on, and I just end up breaking my heart over and over and over again. What do I do?
Like this guy I met two weeks ago, we've met up a good few times, things going well then today we had an argument and I cannot stop crying! Like this is not normal!
I'm just out of a very serious relationship if that's anything, but I can't keep doing thiss to myself!

This is actually the best advice ever. I completely agree with this. I took similar steps with my current boyfriend and I really think it's played a big part in why we've worked out so well. My previous relationships ended badly because we really rushed in.

I wish I had understood this sooner, sigh. I agree with the other point as well about focusing on yourself, to use a metaphor, if you think of life as a pyramid, at the base you should have things like family, health and leisure, important things you need to have before you pursue relationships. Relationships should only come after you have a solid base otherwise you risk dependence on them to fill some sort of void which creates an environment of fear and uncertainty not mutual progress, relationships quickly die due to boredom as well and having a solid base can significantly reduce boredom by adding variety to life.