year 11 going out with a year12

I'm in year 11 and my boyfriend is in year 12 and for a while my Spanish teacher has bugging me saying that the combination isn't good for example today I was wiv him at lunch at the back of the field due to disapproval of my brother I can't have him see us together so we went at the back where he won't see us and lots of people were there and I was talking to my boyfriend as the had called me inside and was like this is inappropriate and I'm setting a bad example to year sevens and what would my parents say if they find out bearing in mind me and my boyfriend weren't even close and I felt embarrassed when she called me out and I had started to cry but was I on the wrong?

Reply 1

bored1802

8

you were just talking right?

Reply 2

Anonymous #1

OP

Yh we were just talking like we also kept our distance

Reply 3

Anonymous #1

OP

Yh we were just talking also we had a distance^

Reply 4

Anonymous #1

OP

Yh we were just talking

Reply 5

Anonymous #1

OP

Yh we were just talking we weren’t even close we kept a distance

Reply 6

Anonymous #1

OP

Yes we were only talking

Reply 7

Morgies

18

how old is he and how old are you?

Reply 8

bones-mccoy

19

Sounds like this teacher needs to keep her nose out. It's not like it's a Year 7 going out with someone in sixth form, you're only one academic year apart so it's really not a big deal age-wise.

Reply 9

Arisapo

17

Year 12 and Year 11?

It’s not like it’s a Year 12 and Year 8, there’s a one school year difference and not weird at all, he could be a day older than you.

Your teacher is being inappropriate and her behaviour is uncalled for, take no interest.

Reply 10

Anonymous #1

OP

I’m 16 years old and he’s 17 years old and as was saying earlier I’m going through problems as my dad and my brother disagree and don’t approve of it so I had to be at the field so my brother wouldn’t see but she called me saying I’m influencing year 7s to do the same thing.

Reply 11

Anonymous #1

OP

I’m 16 and he’s 17

Reply 12

bored1802

8

that is not even a big deal, this happens all the time in our school. Your teacher was overreacting, just be like that you were asking for advice about GCSE's or something like that.

Reply 13

Anonymous #2

its completely fine??

Reply 14

Anonymous #1

OP

It’s the second time this teachers come up to me telling me to break up

Reply 15

Morgies

18

Original post by Anonymous

I’m 16 years old and he’s 17 years old and as was saying earlier I’m going through problems as my dad and my brother disagree and don’t approve of it so I had to be at the field so my brother wouldn’t see but she called me saying I’m influencing year 7s to do the same thing.

thats literally a year of difference. im struggling to figure out why the people around you see this as such a big deal.

im so sorry youre dealing with this, especially from a teacher. are there any higher ups you feel comfortable telling?

Reply 16

Anonymous #1

OP

The thing is I feel scared to tell the higher ups as she’s apart of them also my Spanish teacher and I feel like she’ll make my life hell if I go tell someone.

Reply 17

Anonymous #1

OP

Original post by todorokishouto

thats literally a year of difference. im struggling to figure out why the people around you see this as such a big deal.

im so sorry youre dealing with this, especially from a teacher. are there any higher ups you feel comfortable telling?

I feel scared to tell someone as she’s apart of one of the higher ups and she’s also my spanish teacher and I’m scared if she would make me life hell .

Reply 18

Morgies

18

Original post by Anonymous

I feel scared to tell someone as she’s apart of one of the higher ups and she’s also my spanish teacher and I’m scared if she would make me life hell .