I’m 22 and need your guys help
Im 22 and looking at getting an escort as my first time had a couple of girlfriends but hasn’t worked out what do you think I should do
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Don’t do that you are still young you will find someone that you love to share this experience with. Just wait
Original post by Kelseyy678
Don’t do that you are still young you will find someone that you love to share this experience with. Just wait
Struggling to get out there and find someone, I don’t drink and not really a fan of night clubs not that I’ve ever been to one
Original post by Anonymous
Struggling to get out there and find someone, I don’t drink and not really a fan of night clubs not that I’ve ever been to one
Do it. Lots of lads do, sex is sex, paid or unpaid bro
Dont do that.
Time and age is on your side.
You will meet somebody, just be patient.
Time and age is on your side.
You will meet somebody, just be patient.
Original post by Karisa96
Dont do that.
Time and age is on your side.
You will meet somebody, just be patient.
Time and age is on your side.
You will meet somebody, just be patient.
I hope your right :/
Original post by Lewis_5678
I hope your right :/
The problem with asking this question on here is that you get responses from both men and women. Very few women understand a mans sexual needs in detail.
As a fellow man, sex is sex and hookers/escorts are amazing!
I've had sex with 50+ escorts and I'm only 24. I still search for women, approach and have and had girlfriends and meaningful relationships.
Think of it like this. Why should you not get an escort, and wait however long for a girlfriend, when you can just have sex with an escort and get a girlfriend when the times right?
People act like if you sleep with an escort you're going to grow an extra arm or something. People make it out to be a big deal. Its really not
Go and bang away fella!
Don't do it. Apart from the risk of disease, think of the possibility that the woman concerned may have been trafficked or has been forced into it.
Maybe I’m being inpatient, and should wait for when the time is right. But in my eyes, many people my age have already had sex 🤔 and I feel like I’m doing something wrong or maybe I’m just not good enough for anyone. Maybe I should start getting out there, going out and meeting new people I don’t know 😬
Original post by WaffleApple
The problem with asking this question on here is that you get responses from both men and women. Very few women understand a mans sexual needs in detail.
As a fellow man, sex is sex and hookers/escorts are amazing!
I've had sex with 50+ escorts and I'm only 24. I still search for women, approach and have and had girlfriends and meaningful relationships.
Think of it like this. Why should you not get an escort, and wait however long for a girlfriend, when you can just have sex with an escort and get a girlfriend when the times right?
People act like if you sleep with an escort you're going to grow an extra arm or something. People make it out to be a big deal. Its really not
Go and bang away fella!
As a fellow man, sex is sex and hookers/escorts are amazing!
I've had sex with 50+ escorts and I'm only 24. I still search for women, approach and have and had girlfriends and meaningful relationships.
Think of it like this. Why should you not get an escort, and wait however long for a girlfriend, when you can just have sex with an escort and get a girlfriend when the times right?
People act like if you sleep with an escort you're going to grow an extra arm or something. People make it out to be a big deal. Its really not
Go and bang away fella!
Relentless sexual appetites are not exclusively male!!
however, as a female I’m not sure I’d want to be with a man who’d slept with so many women, the majority paid for.
Original post by Lewis_5678
Maybe I’m being inpatient, and should wait for when the time is right. But in my eyes, many people my age have already had sex 🤔 and I feel like I’m doing something wrong or maybe I’m just not good enough for anyone. Maybe I should start getting out there, going out and meeting new people I don’t know 😬
I really believe that your chances of getting a girlfriend are influenced by your mind set. You feel like you're not good enough for anyone. You feel like you are doing something wrong.
These things wont disappear by just going out and meeting people. You should try and work out the cause of these feelings and correct them.
A man who feels like he is not good enough for anyone is not attractive.
Original post by Sammylou40
Relentless sexual appetites are not exclusively male!!
however, as a female I’m not sure I’d want to be with a man who’d slept with so many women, the majority paid for.
however, as a female I’m not sure I’d want to be with a man who’d slept with so many women, the majority paid for.
I've slept with about 30 that haven't been paid for. So not really the majority. Here is the thing, not all men visit escorts because they can't get sex. In my case I visited escorts because I have exactly what I wanted. Escorts will let you live out practically any fantasy. Plus, I used to find that showing up at a brothel, not knowing who you are going to sleep with is really exciting and stimulating in itself. So as you can see, I've never slept with an escort because I "needed sex". I simply wanted specific things. I've not seen an escort for over a year right now, just because I'm with a woman who is sexually experimental.
Yes I should have probably mentioned to the thread starter that you DO NOT disclose that you have slept with an escort with any girls you do date. Really why do they need that information?
(edited 4 years ago)
Original post by WaffleApple
I've slept with about 30 that haven't been paid for. So not really the majority. Here is the thing, not all men visit escorts because they can't get sex. In my case I visited escorts because I have exactly what I wanted. Escorts will let you live out practically any fantasy. Plus, I used to find that showing up at a brothel, not knowing who you are going to sleep with is really exciting and stimulating in itself. So as you can see, I've never slept with an escort because I "needed sex". I simply wanted specific things. I've not seen an escort for over a year right now, just because I'm with a woman who is sexually experimental.
Yes I should have probably mentioned to the thread starter that you DO NOT disclose that you have slept with an escort with any girls you do date. Really why do they need that information?
Yes I should have probably mentioned to the thread starter that you DO NOT disclose that you have slept with an escort with any girls you do date. Really why do they need that information?
Sorry, what’s Cold approaching?
Original post by WaffleApple
Really why do they need that information?
because you may be about to infect the women with a life changing disease after using your escorts who are trafficked by people smugglers getting rich from you
What will that solve? It definitely won’t solve your issue with failed relationships and it won’t do anything for your self-esteem. You will waste money (that you probably don’t have at 22) and possibly pick up an STI or worry yourself sick over the possibility. You’ll feel awful about yourself and you will have nothing positive to show for it. There have also been a few threads where guys have become addicted to escorts.
(edited 4 years ago)
Original post by WaffleApple
Yes I should have probably mentioned to the thread starter that you DO NOT disclose that you have slept with an escort with any girls you do date. Really why do they need that information?
Yes I should have probably mentioned to the thread starter that you DO NOT disclose that you have slept with an escort with any girls you do date. Really why do they need that information?
I’m not remotely interested in dishing out moral judgements firstly but do you not think if you were building a serious relationship then your past , and hers, is something you talk about?
And do you think that if you were in a relationship that you perceive may be “forever “ that you could give up the variety?
Original post by Lewis_5678
maybe I’m just not good enough for anyone
why would you think this?
why would you put women up on a pedestle, thinking they are all so much better than you?
it is mathematically and statistically wrong. It cannot be correct.
who has made you think you are not good enough?
Original post by Anonymous
because you may be about to infect the women with a life changing disease after using your escorts who are trafficked by people smugglers getting rich from you
May i ask, how old are you? Because this was a very pathetic post.
Higher class escorts that charge £100-£200 an hour are nearly always doing the work at free will. They are NOT a victim of human trafficking. Lets take La Maison in Manchester as an example. A few times a year the police visit this high end brothel/massage parlour. They come in, they check the girls papers to make sure they are legal and they leave. Then business resumes and clients flow in.
The vast majority of escorts are in that field of work because A: Its super high pay. They can earn £1000+ per day. And B: Because they can't find alternative, well paid employment.
I've also never met an escort who would have unprotected sex. They nearly all require condoms. Hence NO risk of a life changing disease. By the way, I have been tested!
Also let me remind you, visiting escorts in the United Kingdom is completely legal. Whatever happens between two consenting adults is not illegal.
You need to understand the difference between street prostitutes and escorts.
Prostitutes = High level of human trafficking and or abuse
Escorts = They just like making serious money
Rape prosecution anyone? He took off the condom without consent boohoo?
you could get away with anything with the escort, good luck to her suing you or another client for not wearing the condom
it's your risk - the NHS may collapse one day, no more free healthcare
*cough* recruitment agent *cough*
you could get away with anything with the escort, good luck to her suing you or another client for not wearing the condom
it's your risk - the NHS may collapse one day, no more free healthcare
*cough* recruitment agent *cough*
Original post by Anonymous
why would you think this?
why would you put women up on a pedestle, thinking they are all so much better than you?
it is mathematically and statistically wrong. It cannot be correct.
who has made you think you are not good enough?
why would you put women up on a pedestle, thinking they are all so much better than you?
it is mathematically and statistically wrong. It cannot be correct.
who has made you think you are not good enough?
I think it’s just me because I’ve never been in a serious relationship where it has lasted maybe I’m being stupid I’ve can’t say I’ve been in loads of relationship. Maybe the girls I’ve been with just aren’t right for me idk 😐 I think I need to get out there and stop think I’m not good enough
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