High School Romance.

Ok.

this here question is for a friend of mine. I am trying to
find the answer to her question. please read on.

A girl ( call her Nadine) is best pals with a shy guy (call him
Keith). Nadine dates lots of guys but soon realizes she has thing for
Keith. Keith, who has an interest in Ariana ( the school's stereotypical bimbo cheerleader), asked Ariana out and dated her for
awhile. Nadine knows Ariana's type. She will dump Keith. And Ariana did. she dumped Keith like trash. Nadine likes Keith. Keith is seriously
depressed. His only outlet is paintball. Should Nadine tell Keith she wants to be with him ? They were best buds but never more than that.
Um, say that Keith was drunk one night and Nadine slept with him and Keith has forgotten all about it. ALL. he still thinks he's a virgin. Nadine KNOWS he isnt. should she tell him they had sex ???

Will it ruin the friendship ?

Reply 1

Infinity

Ugh! Now my head hurts!

Reply 2

Infinity

Ok, yes there is a chance it will ruin the friendship, he's gonna be weirded out by it. If she want's a relationship w/ him then honesty is important, so she should tell him, besides he has a right to know. as far as getting involved I would give him some time to get over the other girl first rebounds rairly work out.

Reply 3

hildabeast

7

How do you come up with this crazy stuff? Of course she should tell him - its blatant dishonesty not to. He might be a bit upset but I'm sure he'd prefer to find out from her than on the grapevine, and something like that is bound to start circulating as a rumour. I doubt he wouldn't remember a thing though...

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Reply 4

Infinity

hildabeast

How do you come up with this crazy stuff? Of course she should tell him - its blatant dishonesty not to. He might be a bit upset but I'm sure he'd prefer to find out from her than on the grapevine, and something like that is bound to start circulating as a rumour. I doubt he wouldn't remember a thing though...

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Probably just acting like he doesn't remember.

Reply 5

viviki

14

theres no way he would have completely forgotten

Reply 6

Juwel

18

Aren't all relationships (apart from the first) rebounds?

Reply 7

ladyblitzer

8

It will ruin the friendship. She shouldn't have slept with him in the first place and she should've just waited for them to talk.

Reply 8

Juwel

18

Will this girl sleep with me if I get severely pissed by any chance? Got her number?

Reply 9

Infinity

ZJuwelH

Aren't all relationships (apart from the first) rebounds?

*shakes head* as in bouncing straight into another relationship when you're stiil hung up on your x.

Reply 10

Sire

10

Perhaps she should just get him a little drunk and sleep with him again. If nothing else, it would help jog his memory, and after that getting together isn't really much of a step at all.

Reply 11

Juwel

18

Infinity

*shakes head* as in bouncing straight into another relationship when you're stiil hung up on your x.

So it's in that sense then. But if the new person was worthy, s/he would help you get over the ex (directly or indirectly)...

Sorry, relationship virgin speaking here...

Reply 12

Infinity

Sire

Perhaps she should just get him a little drunk and sleep with him again. If nothing else, it would help jog his memory, and after that getting together isn't really much of a step at all.

That's a niave thought if I've ever heard one. :rolleyes:

Reply 13

Wolfman117

OP

I know.

heck, when she told me he doesnt remember at all, i was doubtful.
but i dont drink. can someone be so drunk they dont remember their
first time ? wow. I would think thats one of the things people remember. in any event, yeah, I too think she should tell him. the guy is a wreck and she has it bad for him.

Reply 14

Infinity

ZJuwelH

So it's in that sense then. But if the new person was worthy, s/he would help you get over the ex (directly or indirectly)...

Sorry, relationship virgin speaking here...

As friends I would say yes, but no more than that not right off the bat anyway, after some time I would say why not? But then that's just my oppinion.

Reply 15

Giby

ZJuwelH

So it's in that sense then. But if the new person was worthy, s/he would help you get over the ex (directly or indirectly)...

Sorry, relationship virgin speaking here...

This is nothing but crude honesty, but your weird.