this here question is for a friend of mine. I am trying to
find the answer to her question. please read on.
A girl ( call her Nadine) is best pals with a shy guy (call him
Keith). Nadine dates lots of guys but soon realizes she has thing for
Keith. Keith, who has an interest in Ariana ( the school's stereotypical bimbo cheerleader), asked Ariana out and dated her for
awhile. Nadine knows Ariana's type. She will dump Keith. And Ariana did. she dumped Keith like trash. Nadine likes Keith. Keith is seriously
depressed. His only outlet is paintball. Should Nadine tell Keith she wants to be with him ? They were best buds but never more than that.
Um, say that Keith was drunk one night and Nadine slept with him and Keith has forgotten all about it. ALL. he still thinks he's a virgin. Nadine KNOWS he isnt. should she tell him they had sex ???
Will it ruin the friendship ?
Ok, yes there is a chance it will ruin the friendship, he's gonna be weirded out by it. If she want's a relationship w/ him then honesty is important, so she should tell him, besides he has a right to know. as far as getting involved I would give him some time to get over the other girl first rebounds rairly work out.
How do you come up with this crazy stuff? Of course she should tell him - its blatant dishonesty not to. He might be a bit upset but I'm sure he'd prefer to find out from her than on the grapevine, and something like that is bound to start circulating as a rumour. I doubt he wouldn't remember a thing though...
theres no way he would have completely forgotten
Aren't all relationships (apart from the first) rebounds?
It will ruin the friendship. She shouldn't have slept with him in the first place and she should've just waited for them to talk.
Will this girl sleep with me if I get severely pissed by any chance? Got her number?
Perhaps she should just get him a little drunk and sleep with him again. If nothing else, it would help jog his memory, and after that getting together isn't really much of a step at all.
heck, when she told me he doesnt remember at all, i was doubtful.
but i dont drink. can someone be so drunk they dont remember their
first time ? wow. I would think thats one of the things people remember. in any event, yeah, I too think she should tell him. the guy is a wreck and she has it bad for him.
my mate was drunk for his first time, and he didn't remember. to prove it, the girl showed him the used condom.