I am in a relationship, I really like my boyfriend and enjoy having fun with him, we have only been together a few months and don't see each other that regularly but I have been very happy with the situation, especially as I didnt want a relationship before I met him.
However, a little while ago, he started telling me he loved me. This was really hard because although I like being with him, I couldnt say i am in love with him and to be honest i dont feel like he is the one or anything like that. and dont say that im lying to myself or shouldnt be with him, because as i said, i really like the setup we have.
i kept avoiding the topic when he said it to me, and he didnt seem to notice i wasnt saying it back in those words. what i should have done is just spoken to him about it.
the problem is, shortly after this i love you business started we went out, and got very very intoxicated (put it this way, not on booze) and i said it back....lots. this was at his leaving party, but he comes back in two weeks. the worst part is, now i've started saying it i STUPIDLY have carried on with it...because you can't exactly be like you know what i said about loving you, i don't, i was just really ******.
because we've just been facebooking or skyping or whatever it's been easier to avoid, but i dont know what to do when he comes back! as i said, i really want to stay with him!
i have also been aware from the start of the relationship that he likes me more than i like him...
who are introverts?