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How many people under 18 are sexually active?

please, no lying... im genuinely interested, and people make out like everyone is at it, all the time. im 17 and it would have to be a big no for me.... my girl is a bit younger than me and dosent want to yet.... no laughin please!

Reply 1

Dude

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two_headed_monk

please, no lying... im genuinely interested, and people make out like everyone is at it, all the time. im 17 and it would have to be a big no for me.... my girl is a bit younger than me and dosent want to yet.... no laughin please!

i'm 17 (18 in May) and i'm not that interested in sex.

Reply 2

ruthiepoothie

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i have been with my bf for 4 years...it took us 2.5yrs!!!
neither of us really believe in sex beofre marriage and so it is like a huge committment for us- like declaring that we both want to be together forever and that we want to get married!!!!

Reply 3

shazza

I'm 22 now, but I popped my cherry when I was 15 :frown:

and do regret it, although it was with someone I loved and we were together for over 3 years, so it wasn't sordid, I just wished I had waited.

Reply 4

Dude

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shazza

I'm 22 now, but I popped my cherry when I was 15 :frown:

and do regret it, although it was with someone I loved and we were together for over 3 years, so it wasn't sordid, I just wished I had waited.

One of the reasons i am waiting. i've heard too many people say that.

Reply 5

two_headed_monk

OP

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i waited, and am still waiting.... ive had the oppertunity, but didn't, and i dont really feel any better.......

Reply 6

shazza

however.... and he will kill me if he finds out i said this. Wes (my fiance`) never did before me, making him 23 his first time. He now says he kinda wishes he had even though he knows it wouldn't have been anything special, just so he had something/someone to compare it to. Don't know if he was joking but he said he wanted to sleep with someone else, just to see what it is like before we get marries in December.

Reply 7

Helenia

20

My cousin was a total virgin (as in, hadn't even kissed a girl) till he was 25, when he met his current gf, who he's been with for 3 years now.

I'm nearly 20 and still a virgin, but have done other stuff. Am getting a little fed up with it now, to be honest.

Reply 8

gazz

Helenia

My cousin was a total virgin (as in, hadn't even kissed a girl) till he was 25, when he met his current gf, who he's been with for 3 years now.

I'm nearly 20 and still a virgin, but have done other stuff. Am getting a little fed up with it now, to be honest.

Don't worry bout it I had it a while ago im 16 and it wasnt n e thing 2 write home about

Reply 9

Helenia

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gazz

Don't worry bout it I had it a while ago im 16 and it wasnt n e thing 2 write home about

It's not that. It's not like it's some label I want to be rid of. It's something I can't really explain very well. It's like I'm some sort of failure.

Reply 10

....

1

sell it on ebay :smile:

that girl made a killing the other month and she was less than attractive.

Reply 11

Helenia

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Gimp

sell it on ebay :smile:

that girl made a killing the other month and she was less than attractive.

I've heard about that. Apparently one girl has sold it seven times or something :rolleyes:

Reply 12

lumpycustard

iv beenw ith my bf 8 months and wev not had sex yet, we dont feel the need for it right now (well he told em the other week he feels he wants to with me). we do other stuff.... stil show we love each other in different ways, u dont need sex to sho it.

these days most people regard reltionships soely on sex, and for many more people goin out and havin a good time is "gettin a shag". not good...

Reply 13

ruthiepoothie

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lumpycustard

iv beenw ith my bf 8 months and wev not had sex yet, we dont feel the need for it right now (well he told em the other week he feels he wants to with me). we do other stuff.... stil show we love each other in different ways, u dont need sex to sho it.

these days most people regard reltionships soely on sex, and for many more people goin out and havin a good time is "gettin a shag". not good...

yeah the relationship needs to have a base...something other than sex...otherwise i don't think it would ever work...
i truley believe that you should only ever sleep with one person in your life...and i also truley believe that my bf is 'the one' for me...

Reply 14

Mentally Ill

Helenia

I'm nearly 20 and still a virgin, but have done other stuff.

What other stuff have you done?

I lost it when I was 13 years and 7 months. Since the age of about 16 I think I have had sex at least once every two weeks.

How often are u doing/have you done this other stuff? What is it that is causing you to wait so long? Have u done anything with anyone at cam? Am I being too nosey?

Reply 15

Mentally Ill

ruthiepoothie

i truley believe that you should only ever sleep with one person in your life...and i also truley believe that my bf is 'the one' for me...

Get real

Reply 16

ruthiepoothie

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Mentally Ill

Get real

what's so wrong with that???

Reply 17

lumpycustard

ruthiepoothie

what's so wrong with that???

absolutly nothin. in fact, if i get to stay with my bf for ever, hes gona b the only one i sleep with, and i will prefer it that way to random guys all over the place.