Somebody is using my nudes against me

So I sent these nudes with my FACE on it, idk what I was thinking don’t blame me. I’m saying can I un add you bc it was on Snapchat. He said if you want to then I’m gonna share the vids. Just don’t block me and I won’t have to do it. I don’t know this guy and I’m really scared, please some advice?!

Original post by Violeth9384

So I sent these nudes with my FACE on it, idk what I was thinking don’t blame me. I’m saying can I un add you bc it was on Snapchat. He said if you want to then I’m gonna share the vids. Just don’t block me and I won’t have to do it. I don’t know this guy and I’m really scared, please some advice?!

Has he got these saved to chat… does it say saved to camera roll or anything on the chat window…?

Original post by Violeth9384

So I sent these nudes with my FACE on it, idk what I was thinking don’t blame me. I’m saying can I un add you bc it was on Snapchat. He said if you want to then I’m gonna share the vids. Just don’t block me and I won’t have to do it. I don’t know this guy and I’m really scared, please some advice?!

What he is doing is illegal. It's even more illegal if you're under 18. It is called sextortion. Legally it would be prosecuted under the 'revenge porn' law. And if you're below 18 (even 16 or 17) it's considered child sexual abuse material.

First off do you know this guy have you met irl or is he a complete stranger over the internet?

Sorry I forgot to ask are you from the UK as I'm basing my comments from UK law. Also I need to just be clear on what I said above

1.

If he is threatening to leak your nudes however hasn't done so it could be classed as an offence under the Malicious Communications Act with intent to cause distress

2.

Then if he does leak the nudes without your consent it's considered an offence under the Criminal Justice and Courts Act 2015 known as 'revenge porn'

3.

And if you're below 18 years of age it's considered child sexual abuse material which has two parts to it, creation of said material and distributing it. Even if he does not leak but you are below 18 police could still prosecute him for the first point.

Hope this helps 🙂

Original post by Violeth9384

So I sent these nudes with my FACE on it, idk what I was thinking don’t blame me. I’m saying can I un add you bc it was on Snapchat. He said if you want to then I’m gonna share the vids. Just don’t block me and I won’t have to do it. I don’t know this guy and I’m really scared, please some advice?!

Contact the police.

Sounds like a police matter. You say don't blame you, but WTF are you doing sending identifiable porn to people you claim you don't even know?

Original post by StriderHort

Sounds like a police matter. You say don't blame you, but WTF are you doing sending identifiable porn to people you claim you don't even know?

dont victim blame what is wrong with you

Original post by Anonymous #2

dont victim blame what is wrong with you

I feel in this case it would be quite clear the victim does indeed bear some responsibility for events, no matter how much you'd wish to baby them.

Sending porn with your face in it to someone you don't even know is massively asking for easily avoidable trouble.

Original post by Violeth9384

So I sent these nudes with my FACE on it, idk what I was thinking don’t blame me. I’m saying can I un add you bc it was on Snapchat. He said if you want to then I’m gonna share the vids. Just don’t block me and I won’t have to do it. I don’t know this guy and I’m really scared, please some advice?!

i’m 16 and this just happened to me. i immediately told the police, my school got involved (adults not classmates) and parents. although i don’t like my mother knowing because she victim blames me, everyone else was very understanding. it’s scary yeah, but i knew i needed help. i’ve deleted social media like the cops said and permanently changed my number and deleted my accounts like the cops told me to. the only problem is the guilt and i’m scared my nudes will be released online. i understand that there are a lot of pictures online of peoples nudes/porn, but i’m so terrified and i even though about getting a white hat hacker to help me…

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