I LOVE YOU - when was the last time you said those words....

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Reply 80

bailfire

Original post by Kadak

I have never said those words to anyone .Os that bad ?

Yes, it means you're a heartless brute. You need to start loving someone

Reply 81

Serine Soul

The only times they physically come out of my mouth is when I'm talking to a baby or a stuffed toy. I've never typed out the words to anyone either.

So the last time was probably a few days ago when I was having a deep conversation with my teddy bear.

(edited 8 years ago)

Reply 82

starlight82

Original post by Profesh

To my own, dear mother, whilst she was bedridden on account of a broken leg. I've not had occasion to repeat it since.

Thank you

why do you need an occasion to repeat it?

Reply 83

Serine Soul

Original post by Kadak

I have never said those words to anyone .Os that bad ?

No it's not bad. If anything, it's good. The words are too often used without any emotion behind it. :smile:

Reply 84

The Warsmith

Original post by enaayrah

No it's not bad. If anything, it's good. The words are too often used without any emotion behind it. :smile:

Too true.

It's a rather sad state of affairs,

Reply 85

starlight82

Original post by Ski_123

I said it to my boyfriend of a year and a bit :smile:

he responded with "I love you more than you will ever know". I said it because he always goes above and beyond to make me feel better when my family is in a rough patch.

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So romantic :colondollar:

You sound like one lucky girl :smile:

Original post by Incredible97

Yesterday to my adorable niece.

Original post by Munrot07

Earlier today to my girlfriend.
She said I love you too.
She had to go and...well I love her so I say I love you when she has to go :P and she loves me so says love you to me when I go.

Original post by Little Popcorns

Earlier on to my mum :h:

Cuuuute!

Reply 86

Profesh

Original post by starlight82

Thank you

why do you need an occasion to repeat it?

As the most emotionally arresting phrase in the English language, its use should be reserved for when no other combination of words can possibly suffice.

Reply 87

starlight82

Original post by Kadak

I have never said those words to anyone .Os that bad ?

Nope, not at all. Love can be shown through actions too, you don't really have to say the words. You never know, maybe one day in the future someone will compel you to :smile:

Reply 88

starlight82

Original post by Profesh

As the most emotionally arresting phrase in the English language, its use should be reserved for when no other combination of words can possibly suffice.

I understand. Thank you for the responses :smile:

Reply 89

Profesh

Original post by enaayrah

No it's not bad. If anything, it's good. The words are too often used without any emotion behind it. :smile:

Quite:

'I love you' is arguably the most significant phrase in the English language; say it on anniversaries, in times of crisis and uncertainty, during moments of profound emotional clarity, when responding to a sincere and heartfelt gesture, or after those shared rites of passage by which relationships develop and flourish (including, perhaps – but by no means limited to – the very best sex of your life).

Don't say it in craven defence of marital misconduct or as a perfunctory placeholder for lesser sentiments more eloquently expressed: there are times when only 'I love you' can overrule that cloying cynicism and suffocating self-doubt, and you'll sure as hell regret it if you've been repeating the words with nigh-circadian regularity since day one.

Reply 90

Serine Soul

Original post by Profesh

Quite:

Hmm some food for thought as well as good advice

Reply 91

username1533709

Original post by bailfire

Yes, it means you're a heartless brute. You need to start loving someone

Funny you said that.I guess your sort of right,I never really loved someone truly or ever displayed my true emotions.

Even when some people did say they liked me,I always turned tailed and ran.I guess I am a coward in that regards.

I prefer to keep a barrier between myself and others.I dont think I could truly love someone and even if I get into a relationship,I imagine it would be a cold one.

Reply 92

bailfire

Original post by Kadak

You'll love someone in good time, loving someone isn't something you choose. Whether you say it or not, it doesn't matter. But be glad you don't love someone though, its not as great as everyone makes it out to be - if it goes wrong, its pretty ****ty.

Reply 93

henchboy

Original post by starlight82

Who did you say it to whilst drunk? Did you feel the alcohol influenced you in being confident enough to say it?

My best friend and yeah it did I guess but we were both pissed showing bro love so it doesn't really matter.

Reply 94

TornadoGR4

Original post by starlight82

Would you find it awkward to say it to the most important person in your life right now? Do you feel it can be left unsaid and just shown purely through actions?

I have no idea.

Reply 95

drowzee

Original post by starlight82

Would you find it awkward to say it to the most important person in your life right now? Do you feel it can be left unsaid and just shown purely through actions?

It makes me feel awkward. My family don't really say it to each other, nor are we the very loving kind, so I've grown up like this. Maybe in a more romantic situation I wouldn't feel so awkward saying it.

Reply 96

username1292215

to a teammate on DOTA :frown:

Reply 97

arfah

Original post by starlight82

Would you find it awkward to say it to the most important person in your life right now? Do you feel it can be left unsaid and just shown purely through actions?