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700,000 men a year are victims of domestic abuse.

EDIT: THANK YOU TO THOSE IN THE COMMENTS WHO ARE PROVING THE ARTICLES POINT, THAT MEN ARE JUST LAUGHED AT, DISGUSTING.
The telegraph can reveal that 700,000 men are victims of domestic abuse in the UK, and those who report it are often arrested after being abused. Furthermore, society does not take them seriously and mocks them, saying that they are lying or are wimps.
http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/uknews/crime/12061547/How-male-victims-of-domestic-abuse-often-end-up-getting-arrested-themselves.html

“The type of thing we hear is ‘my wife or girlfriend has said if I leave, or tell anyone, she will say I was the one attacking her and she was just defending herself.”
(edited 8 years ago)

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I am one of those men. I can sympathise with their plight. I get beaten up very regularly by my violent girlfriend.
Original post by driftawaay
rofl


Are you really rolling on the floor and laughing at my suffering?
Reply 3
Original post by driftawaay
rofl
Disgusting. Making fun out of such a serious issue isn't funny. People like you are the reason men feel helpless.
Awful :frown: Not surprised though.
Original post by Savage R3N3GAD3
Are you really rolling on the floor and laughing at my suffering?


you arent good at trolling at all, soz
Reply 6
Original post by driftawaay


Grow up with your misandry.
Original post by driftawaay
you arent good at trolling at all, soz


I'm not good at trolling. And you're probably not good at lacrosse at all, I'm also sorry.
Reply 8
Not too sure where the 700,000 figure comes from?
Original post by Savage R3N3GAD3
I am one of those men. I can sympathise with their plight. I get beaten up very regularly by my violent girlfriend.


If you aren't trolling here then I would like to ask why haven't you left her yet? No-one should have to put up with that kind of abuse especially in what is supposed to be a loving relationship
Original post by balanced
Grow up with your misandry.


Only if you promise to grow out of your silly political views :toofunny:
Reply 11
People just dont care which is sad
That's a strange thing to say, is there a problem with my comment or are you trying to be funny, why on earth would you think I'm trolling? This is a serious topic, I wouldn't go into a serious thread and start trolling. What I wrote isn't even funny, clearly not an attempt at trolling.

I'm not leaving her because I love her, I need her in my life. I don't mind putting up with abuse, I got beaten up a lot growing up, by both men and women, so I'm used to it. It's not really a big deal, I accept that she's violent and that she can't control it, it's not a huge problem. There's nothing she could do that would make me want to leave her.
:frown:
Reply 14
Original post by offhegoes
Not too sure where the 700,000 figure comes from?

The telegraph
Reply 15
Original post by driftawaay
Only if you promise to grow out of your silly political views :toofunny:
or you could just respect the 700,000 victims for once
I also find it extremely interesting how the article states that these men often get arrested for reporting the domestic abuse that they suffer. When I reported the woman who beat me up and pulled a knife on me, somehow the tables turned on me and I was threatened with arrest and escorted off the premises, despite being the victim of a serious offense which left me traumatised! I was shocked by the outcome of that incident, it left me confused. Very interesting how sexism operates in the real world. People mistakenly think women are weak, when in fact this isn't the case at all, they're capable of doing some very bad things and can be just as dangerous as any man, if not worse. I was nearly killed that day, yet I was the one who was made to look like the bad guy by the authorities, and my abuser came out as an innocent victim who had done nothing wrong. Madness.
Original post by Savage R3N3GAD3
That's a strange thing to say, is there a problem with my comment or are you trying to be funny, why on earth would you think I'm trolling? This is a serious topic, I wouldn't go into a serious thread and start trolling. What I wrote isn't even funny, clearly not an attempt at trolling.

I'm not leaving her because I love her, I need her in my life. I don't mind putting up with abuse, I got beaten up a lot growing up, by both men and women, so I'm used to it. It's not really a big deal, I accept that she's violent and that she can't control it, it's not a huge problem. There's nothing she could do that would make me want to leave her.


No; I wasn't trying to be funny; I'm actually rather concerned for you if you really are getting beaten up by your girlfriend.

Just because you got beaten growing up (which is bad enough and concerning enough in and in of itself due to the damage inflicted on your self esteem; I hope your going through some kind of therapy for that) doesn't mean you should take it as an adult.

If your girlfriend is a fully grown adult with full mental capacity then she should know that what she's doing is very wrong. Futhermore she should be able to control herself when she does get angry. She needs to take responsibility for what she's doing and preferably you would leave her until she does so.
Thank you for your concern, I appreciate that. She hasn't inflicted any serious physical damage to me (yet). I've moved on from the violence, to me it's not such a huge issue and I can live with it, because it's a part of her and she can't control it or change it. I have to find a way to avoid getting hit, perhaps by diffusing the situation next time before things escalate. And I'm probably stronger than her so I know that I'd be able to defend myself if I need to, and I have done that before, but she'll probably end up blinding me one day or doing something really spiteful like hurting me while I'm sleeping, that's always in the back of my mind but I'm willing to take the risk because she's everything to me. It's not her fault, she can't control it when she flies into a murderous rage and starts hitting me. That's just a part of who she is and it's something I have to accept.
Reply 19
Original post by balanced
The telegraph


Yes, I read that the Telegraph said that figure. But where is the Telegraph getting it from?

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