I’m 22 and female . I have a long term disability meaning I can’t work and I am claiming PIP and Universal credit and have been doing so for the past few years . I have parents who are emotionally abusive to me (think blackmail, gaslighting , guilt tripping, sexist, silent treatment etc) and who also fight violently amongst themselves which has been going on for 15 years .
Throughout my life I have tried on numerous occasions (unsuccessful) to leave home. When I was 14 and 16 I tried social services . They investigated and put me in a hotel as I was too old for care then they sent me back home as there wasn’t enough evidence of them emotionally abusing me (as emotional abuse is hard to prove compared to physical) .
Fast forward to 21, I tried to leave again first living at my boyfriends until his grandparents made me feel unwelcome so I left and approached the council. The council sent me to Supported housing . The supported housing was alright for the first two months until I discovered I had a violent neighbours who did drugs all around me and there was a fire at the flat block I lived in, after two months of hell I gave up and handed in my licence.
My parents were nice to me when I came back but like always it didn’t last and it reverted back to emotional abuse and silent treatment . No domestic abuse has happened between them since I’ve come back . I approached several estate agents for flats and they’ve all turned me down saying they don’t accept people on benefits or that aren’t in full time work.
What I’m trying to say is that on the very low chance a landlord accepts me as I am non working on UC and benefits alone, what happens after that? Is the credit check different as your not working? Has anyone ever been accepted on DSS in the private rent sector? I don’t plan on giving up on trying as it’s my quickest way out (it’s that or wait 10 years for a council house that I might not get it all gets given to the single mums and families . Unless I suddenly impregnated myself and gave birth to a child I won’t be getting any thumb anytime soon and that’s not a option with my condition I can’t work let alone raise children) . Anyone with any advice or experience as a tenant on benefits that can tell me what the process is like would be a great help thanks