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Father beating an adult daughter

Hi there.....my father has beat me 2 to 3 times and I am in a confusion how to deal with him? I am pursuing a degree and he is a only source of income. Moreover, he is an ex-army officer and at present he gets pension. I want to know the way in which I can deal with him and take his pension in my mothers account. Help me!!!
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You can't do anything about the pension, but you can report your father to the police. However, you'd have to make arrangements for finance (speak with Student Finance/student services about bursaries?), to have moved all your belongings out of your home and find alternative accommodation when you can't use that provided through uni.
Original post by Anonymous
Hi there.....my father has beat me 2 to 3 times and I am in a confusion how to deal with him? I am pursuing a degree and he is a only source of income. Moreover, he is an ex-army officer and at present he gets pension. I want to know the way in which I can deal with him and take his pension in my mothers account. Help me!!!


Hi there,

Sorry you are going through this.

Just reaching out to you as I wanted to let you know there is support available out there that may be of use:

- Victim Support
https://www.victimsupport.org.uk/
Get in touch anytime for independent, free, and confidential advice:
Call Supportline on 08 08 16 89 111

- Refuge - Anyone, domestic violence
Website: https://www.refuge.org.uk

- Rise, Anyone, domestic violence
https://www.riseuk.org.uk/get-help/about-domestic-abuse
Helpline number is 01273 622 822. Monday and Tuesday mornings, 9.30 - 12.30pm and Wednesday 5-7pm.
Alternatively, you can contact via email on [email protected]

- Relate - Anyone, relationship support
Tel: 0300 0030 396 (need to book appointment for counselling)
Live chat: https://www.relate.org.uk/relationsh...hat-counsellor
Website: https://www.relate.org.uk

Hope you find this useful and please come into ATCS if you have any further questions.

Please take care.

Best wishes,
TSR Support
Original post by Anonymous
Hi there.....my father has beat me 2 to 3 times and I am in a confusion how to deal with him? I am pursuing a degree and he is a only source of income. Moreover, he is an ex-army officer and at present he gets pension. I want to know the way in which I can deal with him and take his pension in my mothers account. Help me!!!

Get support.
Useful numbers below.


I’d strongly advice not confronting him alone or just reporting him to the police if you have nowhere else to go or financial independence.
Google the Assault Cycle and will help you to understand about when you are vulnerable.
I’ve been in your shoes.
x

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