Do I ask her for her FB?

There's this girl I like who I sometimes see working at a bar and another place, I've spoken to her many times but only for like 30 seconds at a time as she has to serve other people etc (The places she works at are always busy).

She's heading off to University in September and so am I (She's 22, I'm 19) and I would like to stay in contact with her because I quite like her and I think she may like me. She's always smiling and saying 'hey' when she sees me.

As I haven't had a long conversation with her is it a no-go asking for her FB? Or do you think she won't mind? I don't want to come across creepy or desperate. So if you think I should ask for it, what do you think I should say when asking her?

Reply 1

GUMI

19

Why Facebook? Why not phone number?

(edited 7 years ago)

Reply 2

?Hannah

14

try and have a long, good conversation with her. perhaps, you should just tell her how it is and that you like her. ask her out for dinner or something.

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Reply 3

Roperjacob

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Original post by Anonymous

There's this girl I like who I sometimes see working at a bar and another place, I've spoken to her many times but only for like 30 seconds at a time as she has to serve other people etc (The places she works at are always busy).

She's heading off to University in September and so am I (She's 22, I'm 19) and I would like to stay in contact with her because I quite like her and I think she may like me. She's always smiling and saying 'hey' when she sees me.

As I haven't had a long conversation with her is it a no-go asking for her FB? Or do you think she won't mind? I don't want to come across creepy or desperate. So if you think I should ask for it, what do you think I should say when asking her?

I would say talk to her a bit more, maybe even try getting her phone # first. So you two could talk on the phone or text to get to know each other better. Facebook has less privacy i belive to many connections

Reply 4

Anonymous #1

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Original post by GUMI

Why Facebook? Why not phone number?

In the short-term I just want to get to know her as friends and see where things lead. Also I'm quite anxious at the moment so I don't want to rush things.

Reply 5

Anonymous #1

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Original post by ?Hannah

try and have a long, good conversation with her. perhaps, you should just tell her how it is and that you like her. ask her out for dinner or something.

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I would if I could, but I don't know how I would be able to because I literally wouldn't be able to get her on her own.

Reply 6

username2752874

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Original post by Anonymous

There's this girl I like who I sometimes see working at a bar and another place, I've spoken to her many times but only for like 30 seconds at a time as she has to serve other people etc (The places she works at are always busy).

She's heading off to University in September and so am I (She's 22, I'm 19) and I would like to stay in contact with her because I quite like her and I think she may like me. She's always smiling and saying 'hey' when she sees me.

As I haven't had a long conversation with her is it a no-go asking for her FB? Or do you think she won't mind? I don't want to come across creepy or desperate. So if you think I should ask for it, what do you think I should say when asking her?

Go with the long conversation first, might seem to awkward asking for it without properly knowing each other.

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Reply 7

?Hannah

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Original post by Anonymous

In the short-term I just want to get to know her as friends and see where things lead. Also I'm quite anxious at the moment so I don't want to rush things.