[QUOTE='[mellifluous]']Well I wasn't meaning to be really critical, which I realise my post sounded! Sorry!
Basically, I thought 'gaining charge' wasn't the best terminology because you don't specify whether the gain in charge is positive or negative. If I was an examiner and you had written 'reduction is a gain in charge', it is doubtful whether you really understand unless you go on to say 'by losing negative electrons' or something similar. After all it would be possible for something neutral to 'gain charge' by having an electron added to it - it would become negative - and this is most certainly not reduction.
I hope this clears up my thinking!
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Ok, thanks for such a nice post :P