I go to an all boys school..........

I have a girlfriend but don't feel the same sensation when I kiss her!!! Instead I stare at boy's butts in my school and look at them shirtless in the changing rooms and dream about them in bed with me...it gets my penis erect. Am I gay????

I have a girlfriend but don't feel the same sensation when I kiss her!!! Instead I stare at boy's butts in my school and look at them shirtless in the changing rooms and dream about them in bed with me...it gets my penis erect. Am I gay????

I have a girlfriend but don't feel the same sensation when I kiss her!!! Instead I stare at boy's butts in my school and look at them shirtless in the changing rooms and dream about them in bed with me...it gets my penis erect. Am I gay????

Just experiment man. You'll figure it out soon enough. My best friend snogged this guy once which confirmed her gayness totally. She knew at that point she 100% wasn't into dudes.

But if I kiss a boy will I get germs or like a usler or mouth disese!!!

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In answer to your question OP, possibly. You have to consider if you're kind of stringing your girldriend along, keeping her along as a safety net. If you are, that's a pretty crap thing to do and you should break up with her. If you still like her romantically but not sexually then, cool, but there may be a time when you need to explain that to her.

It's clear you have strong sexual desires towards other males, and being in an all-boys school is going to make it tougher for you to figure out. Maybe you're bi, maybe your homosexual, hetro-romantic or biromantic or whatever the hell is going around the Oxford Dictionary of Labels this season.

Here's my advice- don't worry about it. You'll meet people and you'll figure it out. Sex isn't the be all and end all of sexual orientation but it is a big part of it. Ultimately, you have to get educated, take care and experiment until you figure it out. Focus on the person, not the gender. And take time- you figure it out in stages and the first few are NOT fun, but you get there day by day. Six months time you'll look back with sweet, delicious hindsight. In the meantime, take it one day at a time. You'll get there.

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Loving the REALLY helpful answers on here...

In answer to your question OP, possibly. You have to consider if you're kind of stringing your girldriend along, keeping her along as a safety net. If you are, that's a pretty crap thing to do and you should break up with her. If you still like her romantically but not sexually then, cool, but there may be a time when you need to explain that to her.

It's clear you have strong sexual desires towards other males, and being in an all-boys school is going to make it tougher for you to figure out. Maybe you're bi, maybe your homosexual, hetro-romantic or biromantic or whatever the hell is going around the Oxford Dictionary of Labels this season.

Here's my advice- don't worry about it. You'll meet people and you'll figure it out. Sex isn't the be all and end all of sexual orientation but it is a big part of it. Ultimately, you have to get educated, take care and experiment until you figure it out. Focus on the person, not the gender. And take time- you figure it out in stages and the first few are NOT fun, but you get there day by day. Six months time you'll look back with sweet, delicious hindsight. In the meantime, take it one day at a time. You'll get there.