Hi Guys and thanks for the feedback - sorry I have just seen the notifications
@Keele University thanks so much for the advice - some of the most reasonable and thoughtful advice I have received - thanks very much! I have a PhD lead I guess that I could talk to but they are also my second supervisor and I don't find my first supervisor approachable at all.
As a little bit of background there are a few things that have highly frustrated me - and I have only been a student a few months, that's why I don't feel the great sense of loss if I was to stop the PhD. So a few things that have irritated me:
1 - Supervisor cancelling meetings last minute
2 - Supervisor not turning up to meeting and not saying, rescheduling the meeting, and then being late to the rescheduled meeting
3 - I have had 4 occasions where I have emailed someone in the university and had my emails ignored.
4 - A constant emphasis is put on the stipend that I receive - this is frustrating, I have never done a job before and have someone go "you make x money, that is really good money"
5 - During meetings supervisor will talk about unrelated issues randomly which I don't mind, the issue is when I make points about the work I have done and he looks at me for a good 15 seconds and responds "that noise reminds me of the time I was on a motorbike and …."
6 - Supervisor will send emails during supervisory meetings, this is frustrating, why bother arranging an hourly meeting with someone to just ignore them
7 - I was struggling to pick a topic as the ones I was interested in were rejected (for example I wanted to work on mobile devices but was told it was too difficult to jailbreak them, which I disagree with), I asked what my supervisors areas of interests were and the response was "well I have MY phd!" - I did not mean to offend my supervisor here, I was just curious to his interests as if any interested me it could perhaps bring on a mutually interesting topic
8 - No Induction within the university, No welcome to studying a phd or how to approach things.
Long winded I am sorry but just a few frustrations (these are not all of them), but as
@Keele University has said I think I will talk to my other supervisor and get some feedback.
@Reality Check I think you are totally correct in the I am a bit disillusioned - my issue is that I am only a few months in! so perhaps a bad time to be disillusioned (in my mind at least), I do thank you for your advice and I will try not make the kneejerk decision and will talk it through! great advice!
@Realitysreflexx Thanks for the advice, and now you mention it I did sound arrogant! whoops! I merely meant my previous course was easy (most of the class got a 1st and did very well) I think because we worked well together tbh, I will try talk through more about potential topics and thanks for the advice.