To start this off, me and my boyfriend are both 16. When he was 11, he was r@ped. She was 15, and I just recently informed him today that some STD’s can lie dormant for many years, and he is terrified. We frequently have oral sex and he is nervous we may be at risk. I knew this was a possibility before performing oral sex and was fully aware. I love him and I am very confident our relationship will last, but have I made an ignorant decision?