Is he lying?

My boyfriend was supposed to come over tonight for the first time, but he said he can’t come over. I asked if he can’t come over at all, as in never, and he said he did not know because he is “busy and stuff.” What do I do about this?

this where i say dont take it serious until it happens on multiple occasions depending on your age he could be actually busy.
not cheating on you or braking up cause if he is that is a very cowardly way to do so.
i think the best way is to confront him about it after the second or third time as he could just be stressed.
i hope this helps you.
JF ZAK

This isn’t exactly the first time. He’s cancelled on plans a few times in the past, he never really gives an explanation. It’s usually just that he’s “busy” that usually means he’s just playing video games but I like to give him the benefit of the doubt.

then just try to over look it now but it carries on i would strongly recommend you to confront him.
you might think what i will say is harsh but you should threaten to break u with him and see his reaction.
if this is ever the point i could help explain what is going on
good luck
JF ZAK
book lunch with him tomorrow if you can see what he does if you want a quick result (just a recommendation not a MUST)

Thank you, I will definitely try

My boyfriend was supposed to come over tonight for the first time, but he said he can’t come over. I asked if he can’t come over at all, as in never, and he said he did not know because he is “busy and stuff.” What do I do about this?

Just break up with him

thats extreme cause he could actually be busy
JF ZAK

My boyfriend was supposed to come over tonight for the first time, but he said he can’t come over. I asked if he can’t come over at all, as in never, and he said he did not know because he is “busy and stuff.” What do I do about this?

This isn’t exactly the first time. He’s cancelled on plans a few times in the past, he never really gives an explanation. It’s usually just that he’s “busy” that usually means he’s just playing video games but I like to give him the benefit of the doubt.