hey, I'm half Arab so I get the struggle, have you ever used Veet hair removal cream? it smells kinda eggy and is a little messy but it does the job (at least for a few days), or have you shaved (pro - it's quick, con - you could get razor burn or might cause dark underarms), another (slightly more costly) option is waxing which I only really do on my underarms the rest I shave, but I buy a pot of wax from Superdrug and it lasts me FOREVER like you put it in the microwave for 2 mins and you're ready, my mum's a fan of sugaring which I think is a similar thing but it's meant to be more natural and long-lasting from what I've heard. in the future there are more permanent but more expensive ways like laser or electrolysis but remember it's important for you to like the person you see and not worry about what others think 🙂