Is it normal to be lonely at 21?
I dont have many friends or anyone too talk to, its just boring. Is it normal at this age coz i saw somewhere that its true. But im also going uni in london which i thought would of had some social aspects.
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Reply 1
Original post by User1947393
I dont have many friends or anyone too talk to, its just boring. Is it normal at this age coz i saw somewhere that its true. But im also going uni in london which i thought would of had some social aspects.
I can relate. Ever since high school ended all my close friends and I drifted apart. I haven’t had a real friend in years. I am also 21, but I don’t start school until fall so maybe that will help? I still have issues making friends since I am awkward and have some social anxiety.
Reply 2
Btw I have not unlocked chat yet, if you’d like to send your socials in the chat so I can see it that would be great! 
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Original post by Pink2002122
Btw I have not unlocked chat yet, if you’d like to send your socials in the chat so I can see it that would be great!
Yeah defo realvisual0
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Original post by username6698911
Btw I have not unlocked chat yet, if you’d like to send your socials in the chat so I can see it that would be great!
Thats my insta btw i forgot to say sorry
Reply 5
Original post by User1947393
I dont have many friends or anyone too talk to, its just boring. Is it normal at this age coz i saw somewhere that its true. But im also going uni in london which i thought would of had some social aspects.
Hey, which uni in London are you going to?
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Original post by Korbh
Hey, which uni in London are you going to?
Greenwich, are u going uni too?
Reply 7
Original post by User1947393
Greenwich, are u going uni too?
Yeah, I’m at LSE and I get you. I have a few friends but wanna make more
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Original post by Korbh
Yeah, I’m at LSE and I get you. I have a few friends but wanna make more
U have insta? I put my insta up if u wanna chat and stuff.
Reply 9
hey, i kinda relate to this. i moved out from my hometown after my school and so did my friends. We all live in different cities and everyone's busy with their own schedule, there are times when I just don't feel like talking to anyone. Had bad experiences with friendship so now I'm always on alert. University gets v overwhelming after a point.
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