I think I've fallen for someone who lives 91 miles away. For those who are kind enough to help me, thank you. Here's my dilemma.
About 4 months ago, I wanted to find out what all the fuss was about on Chatroulette, so I went on it for the first (and last) time. During the short time I was on it, I met a guy called Tom, and we got on really well. This is where it started.
We spoke more and more frequently on msn, facebook, and eventually texts. After a month or so we started to call each other, and for months now we speak regularly by texts or calling, every day. The problem is, he lives 91 miles away from me!
Because we liked each other so much, yesterday we finally met up in the middle! We had the best day, loved seeing each other... I won't bore you with the details but we had such a lovely day, went out to the cinema, meal, shopped, etc. When we were together we acted as though we were a couple, even though we both understand we can't have a proper relationship because the distance is silly. He has suggested having an open relationship, or 'friends with benefits', but I don't know...
I don't know what to do. Do I continue talking and meeting up with this boy, even though we won't see each other much, and we can't have a proper relationship? It is pursuing something that will potentially not come to much, but should I just enjoy it while it lasts? When I am with him, or speak to him, he makes me really happy, but realistically I don't know if this is a good idea. Also, my dad who I live with has no idea I know him, or met up with him, so I either need to be very secretive or tell him somehow (and he is very strict, so I'd have to make it sound not so bad).
Also, he is so nice, and so good looking, he is bound to at some point fall for someone else who actually lives closer... he's had several girlfriends already. The thing is, he seems to (for some reason) really like me.
If you could give your advice, or if you're in a similar situation, I would really really appreciate it. Any questions you want to ask if I've not said enough, go ahead and I'll reply soon! I'll rep anyone who can help, thank you.
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