Scenario A when gun restriction laws are in place:
A man is working in his shop, which has a few customers inside. All of a sudden, a masked man or woman barges into the shop and waves a knife at the clerk, demanding the money from the till. The shop keeper gives the robber the money and the robber flees with a three-figure sum. Everybody survives.
Scenario A when guns are freely available:
A man is working in his shop, which has a few customers inside. All of a sudden, a masked man or woman barges into the shop and waves a gun at the clerk, demanding the money from the till. One of two events may occur:
1. The shop keeper responds to this by making a move for his own gun, which causes the robber to panic and shoot the shop keeper in the head. The criminal takes the money anyway and escapes. As a result of this situation, the shopkeeper has been killed over a three figure sum.
2. A customer in the shop withdraws his or her own gun, and fires upon the criminal. The criminal then returns fire. Both parties are hit and an innocent bystander is also caught in the crossfire. As a result of this situation, the criminal, a vigilante customer and a bystander all die for the sake of a three-figure sum.
Scenario B when gun restriction laws are in place:
A woman is walking through an alley during the night when suddenly she is pounced upon by an attacker with a knife. One of many events may occur:
1. The attacker rapes the woman and then flees. Everybody survives, although the woman is traumatised.
2. The attacker is fought off by the woman, who escapes. Everybody survives.
3. The attacker rapes the woman and then stabs her to death. The woman dies as a result.
Scenario B when guns are freely available:
A woman is walking through an alley during the night when suddenly she is pounced upon by an attacker with a gun. One of many events may occur:
1. The attacker rapes the woman and then flees. Everybody survives, although the woman is extremely traumatised due to having had a gun pointed in her face for the duration of the assault.
2. The attacker is fought off by the woman. She escapes and attempts to flee, in which instance the attacker is able to shoot her just as she is about to round the corner to freedom. The woman dies as a result.
3. The attacker rapes the woman, who withdraws a pistol during the assault. The attacker panics and shoots her in the face before she can fire a shot of her own. The woman dies as a result.
What does this suggest?
In scenario A, the presence of guns heightens the situation to a whole new level of potential violence. The shop keeper or customers in the shop feel empowered by their possession of a gun, adopting an attitude similar to yours - "I am a survivalist and I have a gun, which makes me just as powerful as this person. I am going to shoot them in self-defence". However, in the heat of the moment they fail to consider that the attacker can just as easily shoot them, and that innocent bystanders will very likely be caught in the crossfire. The scenario had one bystander being hit, but that number could increase indefinitely depending on how many people were present in the situation. The more people there are, the more chance there will be vigilante shooters as well, which also increases the overall risk of fatality. If a knife was used by the criminal, due to guns being restricted, they would be less likely to kill someone due to everyone else's willingness to co-operate.
In scenario B, the woman may be raped or killed no matter whether she has a gun or not. The fact is that rape is a horrendous thing, and there is always a risk of death to the victim. However, if the attacker sees a gun being produced by the victim, they are much more likely to shoot her in order to preserve their own life. Unless the woman has reflexes like a Wild West cowboy, she is unlikely to fire on him before he does so on her. In addition, when guns are added to the equation the woman has a much lower chance of escape as she can be brutally gunned down by the attacker as she flees.
These common sense approaches as well as the factual counters that people have made to your argument basically leave your side of the debate in tatters. I agree with your statement that just because someone does not personally agree with something does not mean then have a right to legally restrict others from doing that same thing. However, this argument is not applicable to gun control. It works for drug legalisation and euthanasia, yes, but not for gun control. The reason for that is that if people want to use drugs or take their own life in a humane and dignified way under supervision, that is their choice and they are not harming anyone else. Therefore the option to take drugs or to kill oneself should be available to everyone, and these things should not be illegal in my opinion. But guns are a whole other kettle of fish - to make them legal would endanger the lives of others. You can't say in this instance that "If I want to own a gun as a consenting adult, why does anyone else have the right to stop me making my own decision?" The reason for that is because in making guns legal, it also allows criminals to make the decision to buy a gun. This would obviously make people more hasty to murder others in a violent encounter such as the scenarios above, and would have absolutely no positive effect on society.