This might sound completely weird but I am finding things quite difficult. I am not being racist or anything of the kind.
I grew up in a white middle class area.I felt white as I grew up in a white area. I had white friends etc... I would listen to the killers, foo fighters, Limp Bizkit etc.. I would enjoy football, rugby and I am not a big cricket fan but I do watch it. I support the tory party. However, I was never aware of Asian culture or it never had an impact on me. My mum made curries, I do read namaz, and there was few odd occasions of Bollywood films. I would speak English to my parents. I don't speak urdu or punjabi but I do understand it. The thing is I never felt Asian or could even relate to Asian culture.
I am in university now. I find the majority of people on my course are of Asian background. They relate to Asian culture, cuisine, music, television, films sports etc... They would watch Bollywood films, listen to Bhangra, act rude-boy, watch some indian/pakistann television etc... In terms of politics- they would support Labour as they are from "working class" backgrounds yet live in middle class Asian areas.
I can't relate to that. I don't understand it at all. I am friends with them, I talk to them, but there is no connection. Yet, I feel I am shoved into that group or that circle. I feel lonely as a result because I don't feel a connection. I feel like I am an alien to my heritage (I suppose if that is the word). This causes me frustration since instead of embracing this, it has caused me to be more to isolated. An example would be a situation where two Asians will be talking to each other in Urdu. Even though I understand them, I would look at them confused to make me feel white.
I know that is a bit of me trying to get my feelings out here. I don't know what to do as I am at a crossroads. Obviously, this is weird and startling to most.
Any tips or any opinions?