How to cope with horniness

just bite things hard, books, table edges, doors


seriously helps, a lot of the time horniness is aggression that wants to be released through your penis.

It's good that you are waiting. There's no real solution until you find someone other than masturbation... Also, it's probably a good thing as when you do eventually have sex with someone you care for you can just go wild, and the wait will make it feel that bit more special. I was the same as you - hadn't had sex for 3 years but have started having sex with a close friend - we're both exclusive and it feels awesome due to the long wait, almost like my first time again!

One of the strangest sentences I have ever read on TSR

What they've all said^
But also, don't go on about it to loads of people, I don't mean on here, but in real life.
I have friends at college who are obsessed with getting laid and it really annoys the rest of us that they won't shut up about it.

sexual tension makes us more aggressive, so it's true

Masturbation is a good friend.

is OP male or female?
If you're a male, screw whole "waiting for someone" thing and get laid.
If you're a female start some sport activities, join societies, go out more. if that doesn't work, masturbate.

Are you aware that those two things aren't mutually exclusive?

You're saying that a guy should screw around but a girl shouldn't. That doesn't make any sense because if girls didn't screw around then neither could guys.

They are not. I'm talking from a perspective of a man who holds double standards and thinks that girls should be innocent as mourning flowers and men should be getting as much sex as they can.
Somewhere I've read that only 20% of men get regular sex and almost all of the women have sex with these 20%. These guys are much more competitive than the other poor 80%, thus we get threads like "why aren't there any real/attractive/hot men"?
and lastly, if no one could screw around (both male and female) and had only one partner this would be an awesome world imo