sex is not love and love is not sex

How can I explain myself.. For me sex is just physical form of pleasure. It feels good, people do it because it’s a need, lust, desire.. it’s not proof of a love. So when I truly love someone I don’t want sex it doesn’t make me horny when I’m with them. I just want cuddling, hugging etc these things are way more intimate for me then sex. How can I change my view on it? There is no way to live like this because no partner would be without sex

Couple of things:

1) How old are you? If you're younger, then don't sweat it. It's totally normal. If you're older, and you don't like sex at all, then there may be some issues with having a partner. If you're older and you just want no-strings attached sex and your partner doesn't interest you, then that's very different.

2) How long has this been an issue?

define 'younger' and 'older'

Surely it is not a requirement in a thriving relationship. It often helps to resist in the beginning to see if there is a genuine emotional connection rather than it being just physical.

Couple of things:

1) How old are you? If you're younger, then don't sweat it. It's totally normal. If you're older, and you don't like sex at all, then there may be some issues with having a partner. If you're older and you just want no-strings attached sex and your partner doesn't interest you, then that's very different.

2) How long has this been an issue?

if im younger i dont have to think of it?

Aren't you the same Anonymous #2 who was asking for advice on how to experience this?

If you're asking for advice and then arguing it, then you really just want to have a moan and you should probably say "I don't want advice. Just a moan."

Couple of things:

1) How old are you? If you're younger, then don't sweat it. It's totally normal. If you're older, and you don't like sex at all, then there may be some issues with having a partner. If you're older and you just want no-strings attached sex and your partner doesn't interest you, then that's very different.

2) How long has this been an issue?

wtf im not underaged. I’m 21 years old. I had relationship with a guy for three months, but it was all physical i was attracted to him so I was having sex with him. I just dont think that sex is about love i’m so mad about it why people connect it to love when it’s about calming down your hormones, needs. It’s just about being horny, desire, lust..

Fair enough. Okay, so what's the problem? You want a relationship with all the emotional support and none of the sex? There are guys who will agree to that, desperately hoping that it will turn in to a physical relationship, then be completely shocked when you meet another guy you go have sex with.

Or is there some problem I'm not seeing. Have you sworn off sex?

How can I explain myself.. For me sex is just physical form of pleasure. It feels good, people do it because it’s a need, lust, desire.. it’s not proof of a love. So when I truly love someone I don’t want sex it doesn’t make me horny when I’m with them. I just want cuddling, hugging etc these things are way more intimate for me then sex. How can I change my view on it? There is no way to live like this because no partner would be without sex

wtf im not underaged. I’m 21 years old. I had relationship with a guy for three months, but it was all physical i was attracted to him so I was having sex with him. I just dont think that sex is about love i’m so mad about it why people connect it to love when it’s about calming down your hormones, needs. It’s just about being horny, desire, lust..