The Long Distance Relationship Society Advice Centre

I'm sorry but someone won't kill themselves over someone over the internet. They are just playing games. Your girlfriend literally has nothing to do with this guy?

That anon was me.

Another point is that he won't kill himself i'm pretty positive of that, if he does he has had problems much more complex than your gf can fix.

Besides, to be blunt about it, if she blocks his emails she won't know he;s dead

I dunno man this is all confusing stuff, she doesnt want to hurt him even more

wait is there a way to like send you a message privately or something? im new to the tsr stuff

What do you mean? This is a guy your girlfriend has no connection too whatsoever, this problem can be fixed with a click of a button, honestly, if I could, I'd do it for you . But try to not let it effect you, try not to get too involved, I know it bothers you but, don't take it out on her.

thanks man for the advice i'll try and get her to block messages from this guy

hey guys, i've been in this long distance relationship with my girlfriend for like 5 months now and things are great and im really happy with her. But one day she met this guy online and they exchanged email addresses, she told me about it and as im a really laid back guy, i didn't really mind it BUT as the days went on, the emails started to get more and more intense cos the guy started to get obsessed with her and i mean REALLY OBSESSED! he was writing poems for her, telling her that he loves her so much and that he'd do anything to be in my position... He's always emailing her about how much he wants to cuddle and make love and stuff with her... She obviously doesn't feel comfortable with it and so she said she had a boyfriend...but still he continued to email her about his obsession with her. Then suddenly he started to get depressed and was threatening suicide and how he can't stand it when he loves my girlfriend but she loves me... He always says he's gonna kill himself over and over again. THen i got tired of all this and i told her to email him to back off politely...which made things even worse! He started to get even more depressed and said that he can't live in this world where 'his dream girl is not his' I love this girl a lot and she means the world to me but really im just so damn confused right now... I dont like the idea that this guy is always emailing her about wanting to make love with her and stuff.. in fact im pretty pissed off with the guy... But i just dont know what to do now someone please help... He's already tried to commit suicide already, it's just my girlfriend is always so sad when he emails her about this... And when she copies and pastes it to me, i get a bit sad too. There's also this underlying feeling that this guy is trying to just steal her away from me... if you could help me, that would be awesome (:

Listen, it would be a shame to let something like this to get in the way, and I'm sure you won't let it but tread carefully right?

i will im not gonna let this get in the way of anythig

Good lad. Any other questions feel free to PM me. Good luck.

Is it justified to feel jealous at a boyfriend who has a female friend he sees quite often? I haven't met her yet, but he has mentioned her in talking quite a bit to me. I just miss him and feel crazily jealous she gets to spend time with someone I only get to see 1 or 2 times a month.
I completely trust him, I just have a stupid fear that she is amazing and better and easier for him than me... which would devastate me . I know he loves me. It's so irrational.