I have been trying to let go for 3 years.
My ex left me as he fell out of love after we were together for about a year and a half; he had new friends and felt I didn't fit in with them and his new way of life, his feelings changed. Things just didn't seem to be working well anymore.
We have had to see one another at uni every day for the past 3 years, he has basically avoided all contact with me where he can, and if I try and talk to him he kills the conversation with one word answers... looks as bored as he possibly can.
But at times he lurks by me; watching, as if he wants to talk. He sometimes puts himself in situations where he knows I will be present - like sitting amongst my friends when they are waiting for me after lectures. But if I ever try and talk to him he still struggles to converse with me- he clears his throat, shuffles about, doesn't say much and then runs asap. I feel him watching me a lot.
He is generally socially awkward, finds it hard to express himself but I still find this odd behavior.
I don't understand. I still love him and would like to see if we could get back to being friends etc - however I don't quite know how to approach him, as he seems to freak out/ get nervous if I try and approach him or talk, even though he lurks around and watches me at times.
any suggestions?