Would you mind if your bf had small penis if he was willing to do oral on demand?
A question for girls mainly (although if you're a gay/bi dude you are of course welcome to contribute too).
If a guy you had been dating turned out to be significantly below average in terms of penis size, but the guy was willing to give you oral sex whenever you wanted it, would him being small still bother you?
If a guy you had been dating turned out to be significantly below average in terms of penis size, but the guy was willing to give you oral sex whenever you wanted it, would him being small still bother you?
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Original post by meenu89
On demand? Even if he was in the middle of an important operation?
On demand but within reason lol.
That could mean anything from non-existant to an average size just you have awful self esteem.
Original post by Anonymous
There's no reason for me to, I already know that its smaller than average (I've done wikipedia research 
) What I'm looking for in this thread is honest advice from girls about how to compensate.
) What I'm looking for in this thread is honest advice from girls about how to compensate.Hook up with an Asian lass, problem solved!
I know, I have no taste nor humour
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Original post by Nick1sHere
Lold
Below average could mean anything really, I think porn has affected guys feelings about their own penises. I used to think mine was small because of porn until I got comments and whipped out the measuring tape
Below average could mean anything really, I think porn has affected guys feelings about their own penises. I used to think mine was small because of porn until I got comments and whipped out the measuring tape
Fine, it's about 11cm if you must know, which according to most of the sources I've read is at least about an inch below average.Original post by Nick1sHere
Damn, how tall are you OP?
About 5'11, why?
Original post by annarchy.
us girls don't carry around tape measures yaknow.
You don't need a weather man to tell you when it's peeing down; as I said above, it's only 11cm (4.3 inches) long, so I don't think you would need a tape measure to realise that it's small.
May I ask for your opinion on the question I asked in my original post?
Original post by Anonymous
About 5'11, why?
Because generally height will have an affect on how large willie the one eyed wonder looks
Original post by Anonymous
You don't need a weather man to tell you when it's peeing down; as I said above, it's only 11cm (4.3 inches) long, so I don't think you would need a tape measure to realise that it's small.
May I ask for your opinion on the question I asked in my original post?
May I ask for your opinion on the question I asked in my original post?
It's a difficult one and tbh I don't think I can answer because i'm generally unsure on the conundrum, I myself aren't overly bothered by size, but each to their own really.
I would never expect, ask, or want a boyfriend to do any sexual act "on demand". What a horrible idea for you OP!
Your penis size is not very relevant. I certainly don't get most (any?) pleasure from the size of my bf's penis - imo size is really just a visual thing only, depending on whether "big" or "small" is what's idolised. Yes, some cultures have idolised small goods.
To summarise: the clitoris is the real deal. If you can manage penetration then you're big enough. I can't speak for all, but I wouldn't be surprised if this were the case for more girls than you think. After all, do you think girls who don't care about penis size are more or less likely to talk about penis size (and thus fuel popular belief)?
Also if 11cm is your flaccid length, it sounds very normal to me.
Your penis size is not very relevant. I certainly don't get most (any?) pleasure from the size of my bf's penis - imo size is really just a visual thing only, depending on whether "big" or "small" is what's idolised. Yes, some cultures have idolised small goods.
To summarise: the clitoris is the real deal. If you can manage penetration then you're big enough. I can't speak for all, but I wouldn't be surprised if this were the case for more girls than you think. After all, do you think girls who don't care about penis size are more or less likely to talk about penis size (and thus fuel popular belief)?
Also if 11cm is your flaccid length, it sounds very normal to me.
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Original post by Pigling
Also if 11cm is your flaccid length, it sounds very normal to me.
It isn't.
...ouch
Original post by Anonymous
It isn't.
...ouch
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Don't cry! Did you read anything else I said? Is it big enough to penetrate? Yes.
For context, I can reach a woman's cervix (end of her vagina) with my fingers. My fingers are 7cm long. Do you want to reach a woman's cervix with your penis when you're having sex? No, (it hurts).
Men who have larger penises than you just don't insert them as far. Is there gonna be much difference if you can still penetrate a woman and know what to do with a clitoris? Not in my opinion.
Chin up. On the bright side think how much more feasible anal will be for you
The vagina actually shapes itself round the penis and the average length of the vagina is around 3 inches deep apparently, cant remember where I read that.
Anyway, size isn't everything honest. Girth is more important but even then, most women orgasm through clitoral stimulation anyway so its not the be-all-end-all if you have a below average length penis.
Anyway, size isn't everything honest. Girth is more important but even then, most women orgasm through clitoral stimulation anyway so its not the be-all-end-all if you have a below average length penis.
As long as it isn't smaller than 5 inches then there isn't a problem with the dick size at all.
Unfortunately for all small-dicked people, I am one of the fewer girls who are unable to enjoy oral (incredibly sensitive clit = can't handle it etc), so you wouldn't be able to make up for it in any way.
Unfortunately for all small-dicked people, I am one of the fewer girls who are unable to enjoy oral (incredibly sensitive clit = can't handle it etc), so you wouldn't be able to make up for it in any way.
Original post by Anonymous
As long as it isn't smaller than 5 inches then there isn't a problem with the dick size at all.
It is smaller than 5 inches, it's 4.3 inches.
Original post by Anonymous
Unfortunately for all small-dicked people, I am one of the fewer girls who are unable to enjoy oral (incredibly sensitive clit = can't handle it etc), so you wouldn't be able to make up for it in any way.
Fantastic.
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