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Original post by PonchoKid
you can do it! i promise, youll have lots of fun, and if your struggling, and you can hear the guiders talking, go and sit with them, they wont ever turn you away
Thank you!
Had a really, really good time- they were all so lovely.
Made sure everyone was included all the time. 
Trying desperately to keep moving and not stop because I'm feeling quite good and I'd quite like to keep this feeling but I know it wont last.
How are you?
Original post by sunfowers01
Feel like I'm holding on by my fingertips
What's up?
Original post by avhhs
Haven't had a good day so far. I've hardly eaten anything and feeling very low again. Not helped by the fact that I've got loads of work to complete for tomorrow and that I'm still struggling with socialising. Why does this always happen to me ? 
Could you go and get something to eat now?
Sorry I've not been around peeps - turns out the jetlag is far worse than I ever remember 
Original post by The_Lonely_Goatherd
Sorry I've not been around peeps - turns out the jetlag is far worse than I ever remember
Original post by tasha96
Original post by tasha96
Thank you!
Had a really, really good time- they were all so lovely. Made sure everyone was included all the time.
Trying desperately to keep moving and not stop because I'm feeling quite good and I'd quite like to keep this feeling but I know it wont last.
How are you?
What's up?
Could you go and get something to eat now?
Had a really, really good time- they were all so lovely.
Made sure everyone was included all the time. Trying desperately to keep moving and not stop because I'm feeling quite good and I'd quite like to keep this feeling but I know it wont last.
How are you?
What's up?
Could you go and get something to eat now?
Knew youd have a good time
So proud if you!
Urrrm im currently about to fall apart i so cant do this interview tomorrow
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Original post by The_Lonely_Goatherd
Original post by PonchoKid
Knew youd have a good time
So proud if you!
Urrrm im currently about to fall apart i so cant do this interview tomorrow
So proud if you!
Urrrm im currently about to fall apart i so cant do this interview tomorrow
Thank you.
You can do it!
What's it for?Original post by tasha96
Thank you.
You can do it! What's it for?
Thank you.
You can do it!
What's it for?Its baisically for an afterschool club worker thing i really can i wanna run away because i cant do it
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Original post by PonchoKid
I have 5 people on skype from here though that includes rory aswell.
Original post by octoberbaby
I have a couple, but neither of you.. Would be willing to swap though.:
If either of you, or anyone else, ever wants to chat just pm me your skype ID. I'd be interested in getting more people from here on there.
Stayed in bed until 12 listening to the voices shouting at me. Finally got up and made pancakes and feel a fair bit better for having done something productive, especially as they turned out really delicious.
Original post by PonchoKid
Its baisically for an afterschool club worker thing i really can i wanna run away because i cant do it
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Oooh sounds good!
You can do it.
You're a lot stronger than you think. What's worrying you the most about it? Is it the having to do an interview in front of people?
Original post by tasha96
Oooh sounds good!
You can do it. You're a lot stronger than you think.
What's worrying you the most about it? Is it the having to do an interview in front of people?
You can do it.
You're a lot stronger than you think. What's worrying you the most about it? Is it the having to do an interview in front of people?
I wont get it though
Itl just show how much of a failure i am when they say no and when i panic infront of them and when i **** it up.
Theres no point in me even going
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Original post by PonchoKid
I wont get it though
Itl just show how much of a failure i am when they say no and when i panic infront of them and when i **** it up.
Theres no point in me even going
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Itl just show how much of a failure i am when they say no and when i panic infront of them and when i **** it up.
Theres no point in me even going
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You can definitely do it.
You're not a failure either.
The very worst that can happen is that they say no. So surely it's worth going for the chance (and I bet it's a good chance
) that they say yes? Even though it's scary. 
Original post by PonchoKid
I wont get it though
Itl just show how much of a failure i am when they say no and when i panic infront of them and when i **** it up.
Theres no point in me even going
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Itl just show how much of a failure i am when they say no and when i panic infront of them and when i **** it up.
Theres no point in me even going
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Even if it was certain that you wouldn't get it (which it isn't!) why not treat it as a practice? It might not get you a job now, but being good at interviews is a skill and this could be a good opportunity to practice it
Original post by Sabertooth
If either of you, or anyone else, ever wants to chat just pm me your skype ID. I'd be interested in getting more people from here on there.
Stayed in bed until 12 listening to the voices shouting at me. Finally got up and made pancakes and feel a fair bit better for having done something productive, especially as they turned out really delicious.
Stayed in bed until 12 listening to the voices shouting at me. Finally got up and made pancakes and feel a fair bit better for having done something productive, especially as they turned out really delicious.
you can add me if you like, ill pm you when i find out WHAT my details actually are as i always forget
massively jealous of your pancakes! iv been craving them for a few days
so you should deffinately be proud of yourself! Original post by tasha96
You can definitely do it.
You're not a failure either.
The very worst that can happen is that they say no. So surely it's worth going for the chance (and I bet it's a good chance ) that they say yes? Even though it's scary.
You're not a failure either.
The very worst that can happen is that they say no. So surely it's worth going for the chance (and I bet it's a good chance
) that they say yes? Even though it's scary. i really am
got a bet on with my boyfriend, just so he can get me to the interview
im terrified of being told i havnt got it though
Original post by asdfgah
Even if it was certain that you wouldn't get it (which it isn't!) why not treat it as a practice? It might not get you a job now, but being good at interviews is a skill and this could be a good opportunity to practice it
thankyou, im so scared of rejection its unreal!
Original post by PonchoKid
i really am
got a bet on with my boyfriend, just so he can get me to the interview
im terrified of being told i havnt got it though
i really am
got a bet on with my boyfriend, just so he can get me to the interview
im terrified of being told i havnt got it though
You're really not.
That's good! If it gets you into the interview!
Like asdfgah said- even if you don't get it it's really good practice. Try not to worry about that (WAY easier said than done, I know.
And this probably sounds so unhelpful. ). But- you never have to see them again after this. You're way to hard on yourself lovely.
PS. Check your rep bit on your front page.
Original post by tasha96
You're really not.
That's good! If it gets you into the interview! Like asdfgah said- even if you don't get it it's really good practice.
Try not to worry about that (WAY easier said than done, I know. And this probably sounds so unhelpful. ). But- you never have to see them again after this.
You're way to hard on yourself lovely.
PS. Check your rep bit on your front page.
That's good! If it gets you into the interview!
Like asdfgah said- even if you don't get it it's really good practice. Try not to worry about that (WAY easier said than done, I know.
And this probably sounds so unhelpful. ). But- you never have to see them again after this. You're way to hard on yourself lovely.
PS. Check your rep bit on your front page.
so scared still gonna struggle tonight i just know i am
been getting increasingly "itchy" as the night has gone on
thank you, i guessed it was you and put a smile on my face
Original post by Sabertooth
If either of you, or anyone else, ever wants to chat just pm me your skype ID. I'd be interested in getting more people from here on there.
Stayed in bed until 12 listening to the voices shouting at me. Finally got up and made pancakes and feel a fair bit better for having done something productive, especially as they turned out really delicious.
Stayed in bed until 12 listening to the voices shouting at me. Finally got up and made pancakes and feel a fair bit better for having done something productive, especially as they turned out really delicious.
I'm gonna PM you mine in just a second, but same goes to anyone else reading this, just send me yours and I'll happily add you.
Very jealous of your pancakes, good pancakes are so good. I'm going home in two weeks.. might make some.
Original post by Tilly-Elizabeth
I feel like I'm losing everything good I hadPosted from TSR Mobile
Oh no, that sounds awful!
what makes you feel like that? I'm sure it isn't true.Original post by PonchoKid
so scared still gonna struggle tonight i just know i am
been getting increasingly "itchy" as the night has gone on
thank you, i guessed it was you and put a smile on my face
been getting increasingly "itchy" as the night has gone on
thank you, i guessed it was you and put a smile on my face
Original post by PonchoKid
You can have mine if you want, just PM me
Yeah luckily i fell asleep and mostly stayed asleep
Hope your feeling a bit better aswell
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Yeah luckily i fell asleep and mostly stayed asleep
Hope your feeling a bit better aswell
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Also going to PM you mine in a second.. I'm online nearly always so yeah nearly always around for a chat.
Am feeling the smallest bit better, but not an awful lot, have still really ****ed up.
I hate the itchy feeling
it's so unbearable. I usually find that a really cold shower can help though? Hope you're all right otherwise.(edited 10 years ago)
I've been struggling again today . Knew this would happen again once I started studying. I've also failed in socialising as I don't seem to get invited to parties and stuff, or invited when people are going out. And I also go through periods of not being bothered to do various stuff, I did laundry the other day for the first time in 2 weeks and since then my clothes have been lying everywhere simply because I cannot be bothered to fold them and put them into the wardrobe. And as usual I'll happily find myself wasting time but when it comes to doing something productive I can't be bothered. I really want to try and organise something, try and find out if anyone is going clubbing and see if I can go too, or possible go out for something else like bowling . Or even something as basic as spending the evening together in someone's flat. I'd say that I do have one person that I could call a friend, she seems to be in a similar situation to me.
As usual just pointless drivel that I'm posting here, especially when I should be completing my work instead. Shame I don't have anything good that I could put on a CV and covering letter (yes, that is the work I need to do!)
. Knew this would happen again once I started studying. I've also failed in socialising as I don't seem to get invited to parties and stuff, or invited when people are going out. And I also go through periods of not being bothered to do various stuff, I did laundry the other day for the first time in 2 weeks and since then my clothes have been lying everywhere simply because I cannot be bothered to fold them and put them into the wardrobe. And as usual I'll happily find myself wasting time but when it comes to doing something productive I can't be bothered. I really want to try and organise something, try and find out if anyone is going clubbing and see if I can go too, or possible go out for something else like bowling . Or even something as basic as spending the evening together in someone's flat. I'd say that I do have one person that I could call a friend, she seems to be in a similar situation to me.As usual just pointless drivel that I'm posting here, especially when I should be completing my work instead. Shame I don't have anything good that I could put on a CV and covering letter (yes, that is the work I need to do!
)Original post by avhhs
As usual just pointless drivel that I'm posting here, especially when I should be completing my work instead. Shame I don't have anything good that I could put on a CV and covering letter (yes, that is the work I need to do! )
)With the CV, you know that if you manage make to a start on it things may start to flow and before you know it, you'll have a polished finished article and quality covering letter. I'm sure there must be loads of good things you can put down if you put your mind to it! It's just getting around to starting the whole thing - You can do it! There should be a procrastination thread on TSR, it's probably been thought about by various members, but no-one actually managed to motivate themselves to start it...That should be the definition in the dictionary lol
If it's any bonus, I'm actually a touch envious of how tidy and organised you are right now. I'm only cleaning myself and clothes so that I don't smell and offend other students. Having to battle all the flies hanging around my pathetic cesspit of a flat.
On a lighter note, I got into an argument with an invisible person while standing on my balcony smoking a cigarette today. I was using hand gestures, body language and everything during the dialogue. People below on the street thought I was nuts. I hate my mind sometimes. But I shall learn to cherish it. It shall be my friend.
Original post by avhhs
I've been struggling again today . Knew this would happen again once I started studying. I've also failed in socialising as I don't seem to get invited to parties and stuff, or invited when people are going out. And I also go through periods of not being bothered to do various stuff, I did laundry the other day for the first time in 2 weeks and since then my clothes have been lying everywhere simply because I cannot be bothered to fold them and put them into the wardrobe. And as usual I'll happily find myself wasting time but when it comes to doing something productive I can't be bothered. I really want to try and organise something, try and find out if anyone is going clubbing and see if I can go too, or possible go out for something else like bowling . Or even something as basic as spending the evening together in someone's flat. I'd say that I do have one person that I could call a friend, she seems to be in a similar situation to me.
As usual just pointless drivel that I'm posting here, especially when I should be completing my work instead. Shame I don't have anything good that I could put on a CV and covering letter (yes, that is the work I need to do!)
. Knew this would happen again once I started studying. I've also failed in socialising as I don't seem to get invited to parties and stuff, or invited when people are going out. And I also go through periods of not being bothered to do various stuff, I did laundry the other day for the first time in 2 weeks and since then my clothes have been lying everywhere simply because I cannot be bothered to fold them and put them into the wardrobe. And as usual I'll happily find myself wasting time but when it comes to doing something productive I can't be bothered. I really want to try and organise something, try and find out if anyone is going clubbing and see if I can go too, or possible go out for something else like bowling . Or even something as basic as spending the evening together in someone's flat. I'd say that I do have one person that I could call a friend, she seems to be in a similar situation to me.As usual just pointless drivel that I'm posting here, especially when I should be completing my work instead. Shame I don't have anything good that I could put on a CV and covering letter (yes, that is the work I need to do!
)Managing to do your laundry sounds good, don't worry about putting it away it's unimportant. I used to put all my clean stuff on my bed and sleep under it - they never had the heating on.
You should try to find the energy to organize/go bowling or clubbing, even if it's difficult, I'd say that;s actually way more important than putting away clothes. I spent my university years alone and it was awful, I wouldn't wish it on anyone. Make your number one priority at the moment making friends - join societies, sit by people in classes, cook time-intensive stuff to make sure you're in the kitchen more etc. Good luck.
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Original post by Tilly-Elizabeth
it just feels like someone could replace me anywhere I go. Like with my friends, if I weren't there someone else would replace me and nobody would care that much. And with everyone else I know too. I feel like I'm just pushing people away and they don't care if I do because they don't need me for anything. I dunno if that makes any sense though :s
Yeah it definitely does make sense, and I'm sure a lot of people on this thread could relate to feeling that way at some point.
I think it's really important that you try realise that this isn't true, your friends certainly do care about you and wouldn't want you to be replaced by anyone. I know it's a bit of a daunting idea but do you think you could mention to your friends about feeling this way? I know I've got one friend I go to whenever I'm starting to feel this way and she sorts me out and gets me thinking straight again. Maybe if one of them knew how you were feeling they could help to show you that this isn't true?
