I find myself in lose-lose situations all the time. I don't like nights out, they cause anxiety and I try my best to avoid them. My friends know this and here lies the problem.
When they ask me to come out, I decline and thus it makes me feel bad cause they do mean well and like me enough to ask me, but I'm not comfortable. But some friends really do try and force me to go and it's just ARGHGRRRHJKJGHG.
I wish people just let me be me.