Should this bother you?
If you discovered that your partner had a lot of sexual partners, around 20 region and he only stopped it 2 weeks before you guys met, would it change your opinion on him?
Original post by ODES_PDES
Of course!
why?
Original post by Anonymous
why?
It will always play in my mind.
Original post by ODES_PDES
It will always play in my mind.
that is true, and the way you see him as a male version of a promiscuous female or loose woman.
I think if I found out they'd previously been unfaithful I'd be more bothered than if they'd been promiscuous
Original post by DonkeyShlong
I think if I found out they'd previously been unfaithful I'd be more bothered than if they'd been promiscuous
interesting point.
I'd probably feel a little surprised and jealous at first but I'd get over it. I wouldn't judge them for it. Everyone has a past. Maybe he just hadn't met the right person yet and when he does he'll be very loyal and committed.
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Original post by DonkeyShlong
I think if I found out they'd previously been unfaithful I'd be more bothered than if they'd been promiscuous
I agree with this^
Original post by tinkerbelle2
I'd probably feel a little surprised and jealous at first but I'd get over it. I wouldn't judge them for it. Everyone has a past. Maybe he just hadn't met the right person yet and when he does he'll be very loyal and committed.
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fair enough , and I was jealous and felt upset because he didn't tell me what I was getting into so I felt lied to a bit. I guess it was all insecurity but you're pretty right about this, so I now understand.
Original post by Anonymous
fair enough , and I was jealous and felt upset because he didn't tell me what I was getting into so I felt lied to a bit. I guess it was all insecurity but you're pretty right about this, so I now understand.
Yeah that's totally understandable. How are things now?
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Original post by tinkerbelle2
I've moved on and realised I care much more about this relationship than the past. Things did get really bad but I had to swallow my pride and ego to see that it's something really special
Original post by loveleest
I would be okay with it, as long as he is disease free.
fair enough
probably, but I'd obvious prefer if she had a similar number to me so we could feel like equals
Original post by AlmightyJesus
probably, but I'd obvious prefer if she had a similar number to me so we could feel like equals
yeah instead of being someway intimidated by it
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