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I have to masturbate everyday

Hey everyone,

So i'm around 16 years old and I have this problem of needing to masturbate everyday, if not twice a day. I'm try to download programs to block pornography but I always get a way around them.

I know its hormones and stuff but isn't it kinda unhealthy to be having to do it everyday. I can't go to sleep without masturbating....

I just don't know what to do....
It could have a detrimental effect when you're in the bedroom with another woman because of premature ejaculation but besides that it couldn't be any more dangerous

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At your age, it's all hormones. I'd advise cutting down on the pornography as it can have a detrimental effect on one's life, but masturbation itself isn't necessarily evil (although, apparently, there are benefits from abstaining).

The not being able to go to sleep is another issue, however. It's best not to become adjusted to this behavior, so I would advise not masturbating for a few days to adjust to sleeping without the need for it.
keep bashing them out
Original post by ZERØ
Hey everyone,

So i'm around 16 years old and I have this problem of needing to masturbate everyday, if not twice a day. I'm try to download programs to block pornography but I always get a way around them.

I know its hormones and stuff but isn't it kinda unhealthy to be having to do it everyday. I can't go to sleep without masturbating....

I just don't know what to do....


1. this is not hormones
2. if you aim in not doing something, but continuously try and tell yourself not to do it - having it on your mind so much will result in doing it
3. fill your time. ensure there is not any time that does not result in doing nothing. Have other people there and even if you are watching tv or playing games put effort into it
4. exercise. putting energy into various other activities can help
5. get someone else. other people need to set up your security so you can't get around it. also, confiding in people is a way to help end addictions
6.the feeling of having to do it is addiction. addiction is never healthy
Original post by ZERØ
Hey everyone,

So i'm around 16 years old and I have this problem of needing to masturbate everyday, if not twice a day. I'm try to download programs to block pornography but I always get a way around them.

I know its hormones and stuff but isn't it kinda unhealthy to be having to do it everyday. I can't go to sleep without masturbating....

I just don't know what to do....

before going to bed. cut off all screen time between 30 minutes to an hour. maybe longer.

look into other ways to fall asleep online other than your habit
Original post by Anonymous
before going to bed. cut off all screen time between 30 minutes to an hour. maybe longer.

look into other ways to fall asleep online other than your habit


Take one paracetamol 20 mins before you ant to nod off and think about other stuff like sports
Get rid of your iphone get a simple phone without internet
Get rid of wifi access
Worked for me - feel so much better nowadays
Hmm, I am not at all convinced by taking paracetamol - it's not a drug to be taken unnecessarily - unless you get orgasm-related headaches.

It's seventy years since Kinsey found that nearly all men masturbate and most young men masturbate a lot. The only issue was that nearly all of them, regardless of how often they were doing it, worried that they were doing it 'too much'. Regardless of how often that was, and some were making you look like you never did it, there were no physical effects unless they were doing things like sticking sharp / dirty things down their urethra.

Most of your friends are masturbating most days, if not every day, because it really is hormones. Most teenagers are horny as testosterone goes 'REPRODUCE' like never before (or afterwards). And orgasm is a nice way to fall asleep.

What happens if you stop the porn? How often do you want to do it then?
Original post by ZERØ
Hey everyone,

So i'm around 16 years old and I have this problem of needing to masturbate everyday, if not twice a day. I'm try to download programs to block pornography but I always get a way around them.

I know its hormones and stuff but isn't it kinda unhealthy to be having to do it everyday. I can't go to sleep without masturbating....

I just don't know what to do....


Listen Bro, you gotta stop watching Porn and jerking off its not good for you! Distract your self by going out or revising, just try and stop it
Don't see a problem here, take the edge of, all is good
You're not the first and you certainly won't be the last guy to feel like this. It is perfectly normal and will do you no harm whatsoever.

I agree taking paracetamol is totally unnecessary and an extreme measure which is not recommended at all.

Original post by unprinted
Hmm, I am not at all convinced by taking paracetamol - it's not a drug to be taken unnecessarily - unless you get orgasm-related headaches.

It's seventy years since Kinsey found that nearly all men masturbate and most young men masturbate a lot. The only issue was that nearly all of them, regardless of how often they were doing it, worried that they were doing it 'too much'. Regardless of how often that was, and some were making you look like you never did it, there were no physical effects unless they were doing things like sticking sharp / dirty things down their urethra.

Most of your friends are masturbating most days, if not every day, because it really is hormones. Most teenagers are horny as testosterone goes 'REPRODUCE' like never before (or afterwards). And orgasm is a nice way to fall asleep.

What happens if you stop the porn? How often do you want to do it then?
Original post by ZERØ
Hey everyone,

So i'm around 16 years old and I have this problem of needing to masturbate everyday, if not twice a day. I'm try to download programs to block pornography but I always get a way around them.

I know its hormones and stuff but isn't it kinda unhealthy to be having to do it everyday. I can't go to sleep without masturbating....

I just don't know what to do....


Oh my god, same here fam! I am like 6 years older than you and mate I masturbate like everyday too. I am one horny fooker and I just love pleasure (too bad I never had real pleasure)
You should quit the habit now while you can. Trust me, right now it seems fun but later on its going to have detrimental effects on your life. I myself used started masturbating twice a day since I was 15. Right now I'm 21 and I wish I had never heard the words 'masturbation' and 'porn'.
Original post by ZERØ
Hey everyone,

So i'm around 16 years old and I have this problem of needing to masturbate everyday, if not twice a day. I'm try to download programs to block pornography but I always get a way around them.

I know its hormones and stuff but isn't it kinda unhealthy to be having to do it everyday. I can't go to sleep without masturbating....

I just don't know what to do....


Just go for it bro, bus' a nut all over yo self
Original post by timokane5
Oh my god, same here fam! I am like 6 years older than you and mate I masturbate like everyday too. I am one horny fooker and I just love pleasure (too bad I never had real pleasure)


lol actually have sex instead of jerking off
Original post by CraigBackner
lol actually have sex instead of jerking off


Are you offering to have sex with him? If not, that's not terribly helpful advice...
Original post by unprinted
Are you offering to have sex with him? If not, that's not terribly helpful advice...


not rly
I had this problem at that age. I found the best thing to do was make it 1 a day maximum at first and try and tire myself out in the evenings by going on a run or something so that I just wanted to go to bed. Or do things that mean you can't bash one out that night like skyping your friends or playing online with them or something.
I get this problem and im almost mid-30's!
Im always getting horny. I seem to be obsessed with seeing naked women or even half clothed women these days, and lately everything I do seems to resolve around getting sex. I used to jerk off daily still, but now its down to once every couple of nights or so if I can hold out.
Depressing thing is, I don't have a girlfriend, nor have I ever had one, so as part of my daily obsession, Im always looking up escorts or adult models trying to find ways to meet them or even when im in town, i'll walk around trying to find homeless girls who might like to earn a few quid to help me release the tension..Every 3-4 months or so the need gets so great, I have to pay out for a hooker for an hours session, where I just want to spend the entire hour possible having sex.

Unfortunately I can't help out, but I hope you never get to this stage like I am!
I do it

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