I can’t have s*x properly

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Original post by Ramipril

Who are you having sex with? You aren't broken but this isn't normal.

I only had sex twice. They were hookups.

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I work at ann summers and sometimes if you just arent that into the person there is a disconnect, also some women just find it difficult with out some kind of clit stim so maybe try that?

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Original post by miki_00

I only had sex twice. They were hookups

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Original post by cdaniell10

I work at ann summers and sometimes if you just arent that into the person there is a disconnect, also some women just find it difficult with out some kind of clit stim so maybe try that?

I’ll try that definitely thank you

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Apachecow

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Original post by miki_00

I only had sex twice. They were hookups.

Nail on head. Honestly sex is the most intimate thing you can do with someone. You need to trust them implicitly, protect yourself from disease and pregnancy and have somewhere safe to do it. Hook ups are fine, but it would be much better getting to know your body with a trusted and regular partner.

The best thing you can do is to masturbate and get to know your body in the meantime. I'm assuming you are female? Many guys looking to just hook up arn't that bothered by your pleasure.

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Original post by Apachecow

Nail on head. Honestly sex is the most intimate thing you can do with someone. You need to trust them implicitly, protect yourself from disease and pregnancy and have somewhere safe to do it. Hook ups are fine, but it would be much better getting to know your body with a trusted and regular partner.

The best thing you can do is to masturbate and get to know your body in the meantime. I'm assuming you are female? Many guys looking to just hook up arn't that bothered by your pleasure.

Yeah I am female and I have been looking for a more long term partner for my own sanity

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Suave Lad

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Original post by cdaniell10

I work at ann summers and sometimes if you just arent that into the person there is a disconnect, also some women just find it difficult with out some kind of clit stim so maybe try that?

What does Ann summers have to do in this? :s-smilie:

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Original post by Suave Lad

What does Ann summers have to do in this? :s-smilie:

We talk to alot of women who cant find pleasure and recommend toys that may help

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Adz2042

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You're not broken, at all.
I do hope you find a long lasting partner to have practice with, and also someone you connect well with, laugh, go on dates with, etc.
If finding a potential boyfriend is hard, maybe consider the friends with benefits route? Not ideal, but it's an option.

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Suave Lad

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Original post by cdaniell10

We talk to alot of women who cant find pleasure and recommend toys that may help

Might be because their partners are not very dexterous with their fingers or tongue, so they resort to other alternatives?

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Original post by Suave Lad

Might be because their partners are not very dexterous with their fingers or tongue, so they resort to other alternatives?

Oh maybe they just want something different or have preferences or something things dont work for them, maybe some women arent with someone. There is a billion different reason, not just 'because their partners are not very dexterous'

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Anonymous #1

These type of threads make me wonder why I clicked on it...

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yillo

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Original post by Anonymous

These type of threads make me wonder why I clicked on it...

yeah..

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Apachecow

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Original post by Anonymous

These type of threads make me wonder why I clicked on it...

The OP has a problem and wants some advice. Trot on by if you have nothing helpful to say. I'm sure this is serious for her

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