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People always say to get support etc

But what is the support? What does it consist of?

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Reply 1
What is the support that you get?
I assume mental support, in the form of a counselor or something like that
Reply 3
Original post by Jonathanツ
I assume mental support, in the form of a counselor or something like that


What do they do?
Are you personally looking for help? Or just asking?
Reply 5
Original post by Anonymous
Are you personally looking for help? Or just asking?


Curious but personal
Original post by Anonymous
What do they do?

I assume they just talk to you and use physiological techniques to help you feel better
Original post by Anonymous
What do they do?

Rape is bound to have a very traumatic effect, emotionally. Therapy can help them to address the incident and get over it. Also, any issues like building up courage or helping them trust others again. Anything like that, really.
Reply 8
Original post by Jonathanツ
I assume they just talk to you and use physiological techniques to help you feel better


Physiological? How exactly would that work then, it’s just something I researched but no where is giving me an explanation
Reply 9
Original post by Anonymous
People always say to get support etc

But what is the support? What does it consist of?


https://rapecrisis.org.uk/get-help/
You should also take legal action, by reporting the person to the police or something.
Original post by Anonymous
Rape is bound to have a very traumatic effect, emotionally. Therapy can help them to address the incident and get over it. Also, any issues like building up courage or helping them trust others again. Anything like that, really.


Get over it? Just like that? Surely not


Yeah but what do the specialist services do?
Original post by Anonymous
Physiological? How exactly would that work then, it’s just something I researched but no where is giving me an explanation

I think they meant psychological - it could just be a typo.
But there is also physiological damage. They could've been hurt in the incident, leaving bruises or even broken bones.

Original post by Anonymous
Get over it? Just like that? Surely not

And no, it's never just like that. Therapy is personal, and could take many years to work - but the progression you get from therapy is much better than doing nothing. If you want you can Google accounts of individuals who have been through this, and read what helped them and that eventually, they do see the end of it.
Original post by Anonymous
And no, it's never just like that. Therapy is personal, and could take many years to work - but the progression you get from therapy is much better than doing nothing. If you want you can Google accounts of individuals who have been through this, and read what helped them and that eventually, they do see the end of it.


Where is the link of the google accounts?
Original post by Anonymous
Physiological? How exactly would that work then, it’s just something I researched but no where is giving me an explanation

I'm by no means an expert and physiological might have been the wrong word chosen (I don't even really know what it means) But what I mean is that they can easily relate to a range of circumstances and have good emotional understanding, allowing them to easily communicate with you to ensure you feel safe and to minimize any mental effects of crime. You seem very interested in this, so if it is you then I would really advise you to tell a doctor or do whatever is necessary to receive the help you deserve.
Original post by Jonathanツ
I'm by no means an expert and physiological might have been the wrong word chosen (I don't even really know what it means) But what I mean is that they can easily relate to a range of circumstances and have good emotional understanding, allowing them to easily communicate with you to ensure you feel safe and to minimize any mental effects of crime. You seem very interested in this, so if it is you then I would really advise you to tell a doctor or do whatever is necessary to receive the help you deserve.


But what exactly would emotional understanding do?

It still wouldn’t be forgotten.
Reply 17
Original post by Anonymous
Yeah but what do the specialist services do?


When it says 'Specialist Emotional Support' in the link, it means support from counsellors who have trained and have expertise in supporting people who have been raped.
Original post by Kerzen
When it says 'Specialist Emotional Support' in the link, it means support from counsellors who have trained and have expertise in supporting people who have been raped.


Ok so they talk to you? Right?
How is this going to make me forget. Sure it’s better than nothing but it seems like a waste of time if they’re still going to feel like crap?
Reply 19
Original post by Anonymous
Ok so they talk to you? Right?
How is this going to make me forget. Sure it’s better than nothing but it seems like a waste of time if they’re still going to feel like crap?

If this is something you have experienced yourself, do seek help.

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