Would you rather people thought your ex was great or not so great?

Say you overheard some people having a conversation, and they mentioned your ex girlfriend/boyfriend. Would you rather they were saying "she's so hot/he's so interesting/she's amazing etc. or would you rather they were saying "he's so ugly/she's so boring etc.

What would you rather people thought?

Reply 1

tda

7

I'd rather everyone forgot they existed tbh :ninja:

Reply 2

Tyrion_Lannister

19

Really couldn't care less

Reply 3

TheSweatyNerd

I wouldn't know I'm a nerd, forever alone :frown:

Reply 4

Ãmmm

Your ex speaks a lot about you. So if you hate them what does that say about your judgement of character from a potential partners view on you.

Reply 5

MidnightDream

16

Well I wouldn't care but out of the two options, I'd rather they were saying he's hot :smile:

Reply 6

Anonymous #1

OP

Original post by MidnightDream

Well I wouldn't care but out of the two options, I'd rather they were saying he's hot :smile:

The thing is then I'd be annoyed at letting him go :tongue:

Reply 7

LightBlueSoldier

14

Original post by Anonymous

Say you overheard some people having a conversation, and they mentioned your ex girlfriend/boyfriend. Would you rather they were saying "she's so hot/he's so interesting/she's amazing etc. or would you rather they were saying "he's so ugly/she's so boring etc.

What would you rather people thought?

My exes were for the most part great people and that's a good thing

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Reply 8

Spongebob'sPants

14

Original post by Anonymous

The thing is then I'd be annoyed at letting him go :tongue:

So you'd base that on what others say?

Youd be annoyed or feel regret cos others say he is hot?

Reply 9

Anonymous #1

OP

Original post by Spongebob'sPants

So you'd base that on what others say?

Youd be annoyed or feel regret cos others say he is hot?

is that bad

Reply 10

HiBear

4

They probably wont know him as well as you did - probably never will unless they suddenly become his new gf....

I'd hope you knew by now what opinion you thought of his appearance and so it shouldn't matter what anyone else thinks..?
If someone said he was hot then I'd go - yeah I saw that, but we just didn't work out.
If they said he was ugly then I'd go - each to their own, I probably would disagree with what they would class as attractive.

But what does it matter? It really didn't work out. If they like him then go for it lol

Reply 11

Spongebob'sPants

14

Original post by Anonymous

is that bad

I just dont understand that.

I dont know how others can dictate how you feel about an ex.

You should be more self-minded and not that swayed by external people.

Reply 12

Malevolent

19

neither really. Would prefer to completely not remember they existed at all :rofl:

Reply 13

suzannataylor

7

It depends really. There have been some people who really hurt me and I hope other people recognise that they are as ****ty person too! But otherwise, I don't really care.

Reply 14

Anonymous #1

OP

bump

Reply 15

Lotus_Eater

7

When you're over them, you don't care.

Reply 16

bumblebee342

13

The people I'm close to know that my ex hurt me and they're not his biggest fans so they wouldn't be bigging him up, but I wouldn't like to hear people going on about how great he is/was. I guess it depends on the situation...

That being said I don't really care, I'd rather people just not discuss him (especially if I'm around).

Reply 17

Radio

I'd obviously be curious (and entertained) but tbh I don't really give a toss what people think of my ex. I've known him for a very long time intimately and I know what he was like during the time we were together better than most.