Don't get drunk and barely drink at all. Been at uni for 11 days now AMA

I'm not a big drinker either! I might have a couple of drinks out but have never been drunk and it has never been a problem for me. I've also been to all the fresher's activities and frequently go out to pubs casually with mates (although I don't take part in predrinking). Most people at uni don't even care/notice as long as you are fun to hang around with and I have never once been called a bore, in fact quite the opposite! Plus I think my friends appreciate having someone sober around on nights out!

In all fairness I wouldn't class myself as good looking, I'm about 5ft 3 and a little on the chunky side in real life. Plus I slightly edit my photos. But no you make a fair point I'm not a gargoyle!

I agree entirely that it can be down to a social state of mind. My mindset is I just do not give a flying monkeys what people think of me. I'm paying 9,000 to be here plus accommodation plus living expenses. So I refuse to do things that make me miserable. Overall I'm here to get a good degree and get a good job and drinking does not enhance this.

So far I've been swamped with my course currently doing about 19 hours a week including 3 field works where I was out from 9-5. I have been out to dinner with my flat, and chat to each member when I bump into them. I've cooked enchiladas for my flat and watch films/tv series with other members.

I feel like alcohol does not improve my social skills, my mind gets foggy and I lose a little bit of me that makes me quirky.

As for drugs and casual sex. I'm not into either of them like alcohol I assume drugs would not react well with me. I do have a long term boyfriend who is at the same uni so casual sex is not necessary, meaningful sex on the other hand appeals to me more

But no I agree, guys challenge the social stereotype, be exactly what you want to be, do whatever makes you comfortable. Sure go out and express yourself, but maybe exercise some self control.

Do me a favour, keep that attitude and go have fun for the next few years while making something of yourself, ok? Speaking from experience.